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    Quote Originally Posted by Fallen Angel View Post
    So you're sayin that cause I don't mind my hubby having sex with other women, I don't mind if I lose him? I ain't worried abotu losing him cause of another woman, but it doesn't mean I ain't afraid of other potential problems.
    In my opinion, it's a sign you probably don't value him enough. Sorry to be so blunt, but I can't understand how someone who loves a husband or wife can be alright with the thought of extramarital sex. I can't understand also, why someone who loves a husband or wife needs sex from elsewhere. I love my boyfriend and he loves me, and we don't need to "experiment" with strangers. We are happy by ourselves. What about when you have children? What will they think when they see their parents going out with other people?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hrodnand View Post
    I personally see a problem with tolerance towards polygamous practices in a relationship.
    This may be a language translation problem, but 'polygamy' is on the opposite side of the spectrum from 'open marriages'

    Polygamy just means married to more than one person, most people who participate in this are devoutly religious and extremely conservative, people in these marriages are far less likely than the general population to have sex with people other than their spouse, and a far higher proportion of people waiting until marriage for sex.

    Open marriages and 'swinging' are where people allow their spouse to have sex with other people outside of the marriage.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SwordOfTheVistula View Post
    This may be a language translation problem, but 'polygamy' is on the opposite side of the spectrum from 'open marriages'

    Polygamy just means married to more than one person, most people who participate in this are devoutly religious and extremely conservative, people in these marriages are far less likely than the general population to have sex with people other than their spouse, and a far higher proportion of people waiting until marriage for sex.

    Open marriages and 'swinging' are where people allow their spouse to have sex with other people outside of the marriage.
    Whatever they mean I consider both open relationships and polygamous marriages equally ungermanic, untraditional, that does not serve our preservation and mostly a bad example to the youth.
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    To the proponents of open relationships:

    Aren't you worried about sexually transmitted diseases? What about spouses sleeping with non-white or non-germanic partners? Or the high possibility one of their (or your) sexual partners having done so? Aren't you worried about contamination?

    Do you sit around afterwards and talk together about your ventures? :033102st:

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    I would never be interested in this type of relationship, but I don't see the point of attacking people who are. If it works for them and doesn't hurt anyone else in the process it's no one else's business except those who are taking part in it. That's one of the joys of being an adult and being able to consent.

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    My problem has always been with things like this that even if i wont do it myself and i could actually get sick of the idea i dont want to force people to do something or to stop doing something.
    I wonder if this has anything to do with that i grew up in the netherlands wich used to be quite liberal.

    I would never do this myself and i also dont sleep with girls from who i know they had well quite some guys already, i guess i'm on of the people wich cant have a open relationship because it would eat me from the inside untill i get crazy and do something weird to my partner's other sexfriend.
    I do think that parents who do this should start to think about what kind of message they give to there childeren if they think its normal they will do the same thing when they are 16 or in some cases in the netherlands already when they are 14.
    If christ is the answer then what is the question?

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    Quote Originally Posted by NordicPower View Post
    To the proponents of open relationships:

    Aren't you worried about sexually transmitted diseases?
    Of course, there is always that danger but hey I may get run over tomorrow

    Quote Originally Posted by NordicPower View Post
    What about spouses sleeping with non-white or non-germanic partners? Or the high possibility one of their (or your) sexual partners having done so?
    Personaly I don't care. It's up to them who they sleep with, I'll take the piss if I think it's a minger though.

    Quote Originally Posted by NordicPower View Post
    Aren't you worried about contamination?
    huh? I hardly think that one can be "contaminated" by effectivly touching a person on non germanic decent! how about brushing into them in the street??? The only bad outcome there would be a child but as it wouldn't be mine why should I care?

    Quote Originally Posted by NordicPower View Post
    Do you sit around afterwards and talk together about your ventures? :033102st:
    no that would count as rubbing it in :p I discuss it with my friends instead, they find it all highly amusing
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    Quote Originally Posted by Thrymheim View Post
    Of course, there is always that danger but hey I may get run over tomorrow
    Well, if one runs in front of a speeding bus... the chances are much higher.



    Personaly I don't care. It's up to them who they sleep with, I'll take the piss if I think it's a minger though.
    But you sleep with them too!


    huh? I hardly think that one can be "contaminated" by effectivly touching a person on non germanic decent! how about brushing into them in the street??? The only bad outcome there would be a child but as it wouldn't be mine why should I care?
    Letting someone come inside you is a just a little bit different than brushing into someone on the street, and even that is bad enough.



    no that would count as rubbing it in :p I discuss it with my friends instead, they find it all highly amusing
    Rightfully so...:p

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    Quote Originally Posted by NordicPower View Post

    But you sleep with them too!
    yup and I'm not about to trawl through every prospective partners previous partners just to find out if one of them hasn't been ideal. How's that going to look you go out on a first date with somone and start quizzing them on their sexual history? Also opinions change what someone has done in the past, shouldn't affect how you see them now.

    Quote Originally Posted by NordicPower View Post
    Rightfully so...:p
    yep the friend in question is always amused by the situations I get myself into! Just last month I had to be rescued by one ex from another ex who was getting rather inapropriate with their new partner sitting next to them I will admit that things can get rather complicated!
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    Quote Originally Posted by mischak View Post
    I would never be interested in this type of relationship, but I don't see the point of attacking people who are. If it works for them and doesn't hurt anyone else in the process it's no one else's business except those who are taking part in it. That's one of the joys of being an adult and being able to consent.
    It is not about attacking, but some certain pressure must be done, for what they do is not healthy for preservation. Preservation, in my opinion, includes teaching germanic people about traditions and one important tradition would be the example of an honourable monogamous relationship/marriage.
    Helping those germanics who are truly interested in our preservation and those who lack the knowledge of traditions, we are the preservationists aren't we? so it should be our goal to help them understand what is right and healthy but also about what is not, like polygamy or open relationships for instance.
    I don't think we should tolerate something that is against preservation from its very form.
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