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    Quote Originally Posted by Out of Germania View Post
    Sure, I'm glad it worked out for you and I hope you won't be disappointed in the end, but how many cases on average have a happy ending? We have enough crumbled relationships as it is, to add sacrificing and risking an entire life of accomplishments over an Internet relationship.
    We don't know until we try. Long distance relationships are perhaps more complicated but as long as both sides have realistic expectations and a plan it can be workable. In the longer run it probably isn't a good idea.

    Most women, especially who had bad experiences will back down, especially because they didn't have the experience to live with the guy before, know how he is really like in some private situations.
    The obvious thing would be to meet in person some times before making major decisions.

    To you the risk may be worthy, but women who are wounded by bad experiences have to assume, it won't work out. Then they have to move back and there is nothing waiting for them...

    Don't mean to be negative but do you have a plan B in case it doesn't work out?
    There's no way of knowing without trying, one at least has to make the attempt. One should remain realistic and not harbour impossible expectations. Obviously have that Plan B. There's no need to commit everything and go "all or nothing".

    we need to think of a system that builds trust and minimizes the risks so that good Germanic people don't get taken advantage of.
    Such a system already exists, it's called common sense and doing a little bit of due diligence (asking around, speaking to mutual acquaintances). In the end there are no guarantees to anything anyway, there will always be some risk that things won't work out but that's life.

    If this was made somehow into a business, or we had a wealthy sponsor, it could actually boost birth rates and quality ones. Like first creating a platform like matchmaking.com, for Germanic people only, financing flights and gas, providing some accommodation and social events for Germanics who wanted to meet and perhaps spend a few days with eachother, some of the risks would be eliminated. It's an idea, but at the moment not very realistic.
    Any couple who are thinking about building a life together cannot live on warm feelings for one another alone. It requires at least some financial & domestic stability. If both cannot even afford basic travel then it will already become difficult and unrealistic to develop a relationship. Financial pressures are a major cause of relationship problems and failures.

    Without the risks and losses eliminated, like what if he doesn't like me, I'll lose my money be alone and uncomfortable, the idea more frequently than not flies out the window, even if we hear about happy cases.
    Talking to people on the Internet costs almost nothing, and one should at least have some kind of idea of what they're like and whether they're compatible and likeable after spending time communicating with them. Meeting people will not cost a fortune either, at most it will cost the one doing the traveling a bit of holiday money which is hardly a huge risk.

    And a happy case if when the couple has at least 4-5 years of living together, in my opinion at least, even then it could go wrong.
    It can go wrong at any time for all kinds of reasons, there are no guarantees in life except death & taxes.
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    I will not leave my home region.

    Many generations of my ancestors walked on this soil, lived there, worked there, cried there, laughed there, started families there and died there. They rest under the very earth there, had the best and the worst days of their life there - here.

    I will die here, too. Leaving this place would feel like retreat and capitulation. If I´d feel ever ready for another relationship, the man has to live here, too. Or better: Comes from here. Just "Germanic" is not enough. I´m a tribalist-racist: Bavarian he must be.

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    I go back and forth as to how important it is for me for my long-term mate to have racial realist/preservationist views. On the one hand, it would obviously be wonderful to have a mate with similar views on these issues; someone who views their long-term relationship and child rearing as building upon a pedigree and legacy.

    On the other hand, we're obviously few in number, and it's much easier to broaden selection to the majority of people who aren't necessarily inclined toward preservation and cultural pride. After all, a white preservationist mating with a white liberal progressive results in a white child, so you're still continuing your people whether your S.O. sees it as that or not.

    But on point, if finding someone with preservationist views is important to you, a willingness to try online dating and starting things out long-distance may be a necessity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thusnelda View Post
    I will not leave my home region.

    Many generations of my ancestors walked on this soil, lived there, worked there, cried there, laughed there, started families there and died there. They rest under the very earth there, had the best and the worst days of their life there - here.

    I will die here, too. Leaving this place would feel like retreat and capitulation. If I´d feel ever ready for another relationship, the man has to live here, too. Or better: Comes from here. Just "Germanic" is not enough. I´m a tribalist-racist: Bavarian he must be.
    I like this attitude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thusnelda View Post
    I will not leave my home region.

    Many generations of my ancestors walked on this soil, lived there, worked there, cried there, laughed there, started families there and died there. They rest under the very earth there, had the best and the worst days of their life there - here.

    I will die here, too. Leaving this place would feel like retreat and capitulation. If I´d feel ever ready for another relationship, the man has to live here, too. Or better: Comes from here. Just "Germanic" is not enough. I´m a tribalist-racist: Bavarian he must be.
    Fair enough, dear Thusnelda!

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    Did You Fall in Love Online?

    My question is about to get relationship, love online. Did you fall in love online, in the personality of the man/woman, before ever he/she meet with you? Wich canal did you use (Microsoft Massenger - MSN, Skype, Facebook, online forums)?

    "Remember that, even when those who move you be kings or men of power, your soul is in your keeping alone. When you stand before God, you cannot say, "But I was told by others to do thus,"or that virtue "was not convenient at the time." This will not suffice."
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    I did get with women via internet when I was younger. It was mostly through forums and IRC. ICQ was fun too for a while. There was no facebook and skype back then
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    ICQ is still around but only Israelis and Russians use it.

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    Yuck. I think I stopped using it somewhere around 2002/2004.
    It had nice search options for people. But over time it became bloated and they started putting ads in it. I hate ads.
    Lieber tot als Sklave!

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