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    Quote Originally Posted by Pushkin
    But I don't understand these women who literally go fo guys who intendly treat them like shit!
    On the face of it it does seem illogical, and it is ultimately. But there is a logic to how those women that are that way became as they are. If you have a chance check out these womens' interactions with their families, particularly as to the parents (specifically with the woman's father as he is the first meaningful relationship she had with a male, and one critical to who she will become). Observe those interactions over a period of a few weeks or months. What you'll almost assuredly see is cutting, put down, abusive remarks, directed at her, sometimes even violence; the same will probably be aimed at the mother. A certain amount of that may be camaflouged (as in between the lines) by the ones being abusive as you are there and are something of an unknown quantity to them, but in time it shines through. Provided you hang around long enough and they become familiar with you, that abuse would eventually be turned on you (hint: for sure don't tolerate it and don't hang around, beneath the bluster, abusive types are very weak but can be dangerous under the right conditions). It can't be hid indefinately as that's part of the abusive types' identity and that's how they were raised themselves; at the same time they hazily sense that what they are doing is not quite normal and thus the attempts to hide it. They often don't consciously quite realize they are being abusive, needless to say that does not excuse it in any way.

    So in other words "these women who literally go for guys who intendly treat them like shit" are simply doing what they know (from their families) If they were from a home that did not tolerate that "shit", they would not either. To be sure, there are women from perfectly fine homes that are this way, ie the bad seed or a single traumatic experience having done that to them, and even cases where it was more a situation of neglect (still not excuseable) and less abuse; however,that is the rare exception.

    There are plenty of women out there who are healthy and do not tolerate jerks. I've met and known them. All any of us males that want those fine women can do is first be sure we are as healthy (healthy, as in every way) as we can be ourselves, then put ourselves in places likely to meet the same type in the opposite sex.

    Like attracts like! :-)

    That's all for Basic Psychology 101 today. Class dismissed!;-)
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    Turman found a copy of The Graduate, and thought highly enough of the story that he made a movie he considered to be 90-percent faithful to the book.

    But Turman and director Mike Nichols made one key adaptation, changing the Braddocks from WASP-y blonde characters into a dark-haired, more ethnic-looking family.

    From NPR's Present at the Creation

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nordhammer
    Would you fellows rather have a Lilith or an Eve? : )
    Quote Originally Posted by Pushkin
    Besides our society today is pratically one of Liliths, and like Lilith they're blood-thirsty vampires.
    Can you really blame this Lilith though? Maybe Adam was a real loser hahaha Lilith or Eve you say? It depends on the Adam! hehehehee Some guys women just don't want to "submit" to.

    Maybe you guys just think the way you do because you fall into that category :-P

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    I'd rather have a cool beer.
    LOL! I think I'm with you on that.
    I envision a world where people dawning long white robes and elaborate headdresses run rampant down the streets, waving their arms in the air while screaming "we've gone mad, we've gone mad", like defrocked monks breaking the silence of ages past.

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    Real men are seen where real women exist.

    But if women get more masculine, the real men fly away..

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