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    Question Kids having racially diverse relationships?

    There's no delicate way to put this.... I'm wondering how other Mums feel about their kids having non-white friends? Or even if the majority of their friends are non-white?

    In the area that I live in there are many Asians (mostly Chinese, Japanese and Malaysian), so inevitably many of my son's friends from school are of these backgrounds.... wouldn't bother me so much if he weren't actually a minority!! I don't particularly like my son being a minority in my own friggin' country.... but anyway, that's a different complaint....

    What actually worries me the most (as silly as it sounds) is that possibly one day one of my kids could marry and have kids with a non-white. I just don't know how I would cope with this.

    How do others feel? How would you cope with it if your child grew up to have non-white kids?

    I've been thinking about this more lately.... especially since so many of the outings I go on with mums from my son's school, where we take our kids places, I'm often the only non-Asian mum there. I went to one of my son's friend's birthday party yesterday and about 70% of the kids were Asian.

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    Re: Kids having racially diverse relationships??

    I believe that children need to be able to live in and deal with the world around them. When they grow up and have a job, they will nto be the only white. When they go to college, they will nto be the only white. When they pump their gas, dine in a restaraunt, buy their clothing, they will not deal only with whites.

    There is a difference between friends, acquaintences, and people you simply come in contact with. I wouldn't invite the Indian down the street who runs the gas station to come home and have dinner with me, so why would I invite the mexican in my child's classroom to come over and stay the night? Playing at school, church, playgroups, etc. is how children learn to interact with people in life. It is through these interactions that they learn to work together with others, share, communicate, and problem solve. It is no different than if they are in an office working alongside co-workers of various racial types. It is also though these playtimes that children are taught to use discretion. When it is appropriate to say things, and when it is not. It would not be wise to get upset at your boss and call him a n!663r, and likewise, it would not be wise for your child to call some child in the classroom one. Learning control and restraint is a virtue. Nothing is accomplished through being sent to deetention, or alternative school, with marks on your permanent record.

    Interaction and acquaintences with minorities is something that cannot be avoided in life because of the society we live in. We must teach our children to be proud of their heritage and how to be smart about it. This doesn't mean you have to invite them home or encourage bonding with them.

    I once had a professor who was married to a black woman. Their mulatto child was in my daughter's class at school. Do you think I excluded that child from being invited to my daughter's birthday party? It was this same professor who I had for a class in which I stood up and gave an oral report on Mein Kampf. I got an "A." Do you think I would have gotten the same grade had I exposed myself and excluded his son from my daughter's birthday? My daughter did not hang out with the son at any time other than in school and that one time at her birthday.

    I'd like to write more on this topic, but I need to get going to go see my mom on mother's day. I should have left the house already!
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    Re: Kids having racially diverse relationships??

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridie
    There's no delicate way to put this.... I'm wondering how other Mums feel about their kids having non-white friends? Or even if the majority of their friends are non-white?

    In the area that I live in there are many Asians (mostly Chinese, Japanese and Malaysian), so inevitably many of my son's friends from school are of these backgrounds.... wouldn't bother me so much if he weren't actually a minority!! I don't particularly like my son being a minority in my own friggin' country.... but anyway, that's a different complaint....

    What actually worries me the most (as silly as it sounds) is that possibly one day one of my kids could marry and have kids with a non-white. I just don't know how I would cope with this.

    How do others feel? How would you cope with it if your child grew up to have non-white kids?

    I've been thinking about this more lately.... especially since so many of the outings I go on with mums from my son's school, where we take our kids places, I'm often the only non-Asian mum there. I went to one of my son's friend's birthday party yesterday and about 70% of the kids were Asian.
    So you live in an Asian neighborhood? No wonder your posting on this forum! From what your telling me I get the impression Asians are taking over Australia.

    Just ask your son the question are you attracted to asian girls and you will find out! It's more often times true that white men are attracted to asian women than vice versa!

    When he gets older monitor the kind of porn he watches just to be sure!

    Well if most of his friends are asian you can expect the chances of your bloodline mixing are much higher. Maybe they will have the loveliest slanted blue eyes you ever did see and you will regret being a narrow minded racist.

    You have to accept your children will make their own decisions despite your best efforts.

    Northern Paladin's fortune coookie say yal childrin will have slanted blue eyes. :chinese

    Have you talked to your son about this issue?

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    Re: Kids having racially diverse relationships??

    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer
    I believe that children need to be able to live in and deal with the world around them. When they grow up and have a job, they will nto be the only white. When they go to college, they will nto be the only white. When they pump their gas, dine in a restaraunt, buy their clothing, they will not deal only with whites.

    There is a difference between friends, acquaintences, and people you simply come in contact with. I wouldn't invite the Indian down the street who runs the gas station to come home and have dinner with me, so why would I invite the mexican in my child's classroom to come over and stay the night? Playing at school, church, playgroups, etc. is how children learn to interact with people in life. It is through these interactions that they learn to work together with others, share, communicate, and problem solve. It is no different than if they are in an office working alongside co-workers of various racial types. It is also though these playtimes that children are taught to use discretion. When it is appropriate to say things, and when it is not. It would not be wise to get upset at your boss and call him a n!663r, and likewise, it would not be wise for your child to call some child in the classroom one. Learning control and restraint is a virtue. Nothing is accomplished through being sent to deetention, or alternative school, with marks on your permanent record.

    Interaction and acquaintences with minorities is something that cannot be avoided in life because of the society we live in. We must teach our children to be proud of their heritage and how to be smart about it. This doesn't mean you have to invite them home or encourage bonding with them.

    I once had a professor who was married to a black woman. Their mulatto child was in my daughter's class at school. Do you think I excluded that child from being invited to my daughter's birthday party? It was this same professor who I had for a class in which I stood up and gave an oral report on Mein Kampf. I got an "A." Do you think I would have gotten the same grade had I exposed myself and excluded his son from my daughter's birthday? My daughter did not hang out with the son at any time other than in school and that one time at her birthday.

    I'd like to write more on this topic, but I need to get going to go see my mom on mother's day. I should have left the house already!
    Very practical woman lol. I think we should teach our children our values but accept that in the end the decision is up to them. And I have to say Segregation for the most part is natural especially when your kids get older and have a better understanding of identity.

    Take my college for example it is very diverse but for the most part White kids hang out with White kids...blacks with blacks...asians with asians...ect...

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    Re: Kids having racially diverse relationships??

    It's an interesting dilemma. What kind of attitude will your child develope towards race relations if in an integrated enviroment? I had practically no interaction with non-Europoids until I was 11. What experiences I had after that age in school helped me develope a realistic view of other races. Some of the most liberal Whites are those who have never dealt with non-Whites as "equals", that is as neighbors, co-workers or schoolmates. However it's probably not good for your child to be the minority at his school. He could develope a negative attitude about himself & try to identify with Asians. This happens to White kids in America who are minorities at their schools & they can began to identify with Negro or Latino culture which eventually leads to miscegnation.

    I have a cousin who lives in a community that is nearly all-White. Her daughter who never attended school with a non-Europoid went away to college. There she had her first interactions with non-Whites. She meet a Mulatto boy ( Negro father/White mother) whom she eventually married. My cousin now has two lovely quadroon grandchildren. Had my cousin's daughter know a few Negroes growing up she may have know better than to get involved with one as an adult.

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    Re: Kids having racially diverse relationships??

    Quote Originally Posted by Madoc
    It's an interesting dilemma. What kind of attitude will your child develope towards race relations if in an integrated enviroment? I had practically no interaction with non-Europoids until I was 11. What experiences I had after that age in school helped me develope a realistic view of other races. Some of the most liberal Whites are those who have never dealt with non-Whites as "equals", that is as neighbors, co-workers or schoolmates. However it's probably not good for your child to be the minority at his school. He could develope a negative attitude about himself & try to identify with Asians. This happens to White kids in America who are minorities at their schools & they can began to identify with Negro or Latino culture which eventually leads to miscegnation.

    I have a cousin who lives in a community that is nearly all-White. Her daughter who never attended school with a non-Europoid went away to college. There she had her first interactions with non-Whites. She meet a Mulatto boy ( Negro father/White mother) whom she eventually married. My cousin now has two lovely quadroon grandchildren. Had my cousin's daughter know a few Negroes growing up she may have know better than to get involved with one as an adult.
    Genetics could be an influence as well. I believe what attracts us to another person is heavily influenced by genetics. Some people feel no attraction to blacks or other non-whites no matter how much exposure others actively seek to find a non-white partner esp white guy asian girl though having little exoposure to asian culture. Other factors could be involved as well. Perhaps there is something about White men that your cousin doesn't like perhaps she has more control and feels more valued by the Mulatto she is married to.

    Miscegnation may be complex but I believe if examined at every angle it can be understood though not neccearly prevented.

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    Thanks for your responses guys!

    We must teach our children to be proud of their heritage and how to be smart about it.
    That's so true.

    This doesn't mean you have to invite them home or encourage bonding with them.
    The thing is if I don't invite them over and encourage his friendships with them, he may very well be a social reject in his class.... and I won't have this, of course.

    The problem with moving to an all-white area, is that there aren't really any. I guess some areas have more anglo/celts than others though. However, we don't actually live in an "Asian area".... but since its fairly affluent, there is of course a larger proportion of Asians. A suburb not too far from me is about 85% Singaporean, and the other 15% is made up of other Asians and some few anglos.


    From what your telling me I get the impression Asians are taking over Australia.



    Just ask your son the question are you attracted to asian girls and you will find out! It's more often times true that white men are attracted to asian women than vice versa!

    When he gets older monitor the kind of porn he watches just to be sure!
    My son is only 5!!! He's not attracted to girls yet!! (Actually, he tells me that he's going to marry me one day!! LMAO ) He's only a baby!

    And don't even talk about porn.... I hope that I will raise my son to have a healthy attitude towards sex and females. Nevertheless, I can't see that porn has anything to do with attraction to certain races.... porn is not about looking at potential partners! The attraction is somewhat perverted and based on animal instincts, not on higher order feelings.


    He could develope a negative attitude about himself & try to identify with Asians.
    Oh God, I hope not! He already talks about wanting to use chop sticks.... he gets his knife and fork and pretends that they're chop sticks...



    And as for this little nugget of wisdom... ....
    Maybe they will have the loveliest slanted blue eyes you ever did see and you will regret being a narrow minded racist.
    Northern Paladin's fortune coookie say yal childrin will have slanted blue eyes. :chinese
    .... now Nancy.... I will never regret being a narrow minded racist! Slanted eyes are never lovely anyway imo... ....

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    Re: Kids having racially diverse relationships??

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridie
    My son is only 5!!! He's not attracted to girls yet!! (Actually, he tells me that he's going to marry me one day!! LMAO ) He's only a baby!

    And don't even talk about porn.... I hope that I will raise my son to have a healthy attitude towards sex and females. Nevertheless, I can't see that porn has anything to do with attraction to certain races.... porn is not about looking at potential partners! The attraction is somewhat perverted and based on animal instincts, not on higher order feelings.

    Oh God, I hope not! He already talks about wanting to use chop sticks.... he gets his knife and fork and pretends that they're chop sticks...

    And as for this little nugget of wisdom... ....

    .... now Nancy.... I will never regret being a narrow minded racist! Slanted eyes are never lovely anyway imo... ....
    I gurantee when he's ten he will think eww I liked a white woman sick!
    I can see your son 7 years from now he is catching a fly with a chop stick trying to impress a Chinese girl he has a huge crush on.

    Just wait 10 years time will vindicate me.

    Asian porn ignorant woman duh....have you been living under a Rock? Sex=reproduction mother nature makes no distinction between lust and marrriage.

    Here's Chef Spencer's receipe for Mixed Race Children...Take one impressionable 5 year old Aussie boy+Raise him in Chinatown+Ignorant controlling Mother+Built in Fetish for Asian school girls and voila! Mixed Race Babies by the Kangaroo Pouch Full. Bon Appetite!

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridie
    Thanks for your responses guys!


    That's so true.


    The thing is if I don't invite them over and encourage his friendships with them, he may very well be a social reject in his class.... and I won't have this, of course.

    The problem with moving to an all-white area, is that there aren't really any. I guess some areas have more anglo/celts than others though. However, we don't actually live in an "Asian area".... but since its fairly affluent, there is of course a larger proportion of Asians. A suburb not too far from me is about 85% Singaporean, and the other 15% is made up of other Asians and some few anglos.
    My advice send your Son to a boarding school in London. Next thing you know he comes home with a Paki.

    So in Australia the White people are poor and Asians rich? In America it's different the richest people are still White. So how Asian is Australia you make it sound like it's majority Asian?

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    Re: Kids having racially diverse relationships??

    When living in a multicultural ernvironment like most of us do, it is not an option to shut your kids off any interactions with other races.

    It is both practically impossible as well not recommendable, since by rule of thumb, it will increase the curiosity of your kids for the forbidden, and out of reaction, it will drive them even more towards interracial relationships even if they normally would not be inclined to it.

    I would say that the best option is to teach your kids awareness, pride and values.

    If they are taught their heritage eversince they are very young, they will be growing up with a distinct sense of identity and pride for their racial/cultural background. In that way, they will be -hopefully- able to interact with members of other races in such a neutral way that they will realize racial/cultural differences without being confused about their own identities.

    For example: I have not had any acquaintances of different race myself. I would like to exchange views with a Japanese, though, since I deeply admire their culture and history. Should that happen, though, we would both be aware of our distinctiveness and would never engage into anything beyond conversation or let either of our heritages be contaminated by foreign cultural elements.

    I think that if you have a strong sense of identity, then you have nothing to fear. Like a friend once said "the biggest problem of Europeans is Europeans themselves".
    Indeed, if we had not been contaminated by problematic ideas in the first place, then the problem of multiculturalism would not have found fertile soil to flourish.

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    Asian porn ignorant woman duh....have you been living under a Rock? Sex=reproduction mother nature makes no distinction between lust and marrriage.
    I know you were talking about Asian porn you f****** moron .... you are very psychologically immature if you think that there is no distinction between lust and marriage.... there is a huge distinction. And as for "mother nature", well as far as she's concerned there is no marriage. Have you never noticed that this is a cultural institution??


    Here's Chef Spencer's receipe for Mixed Race Children...Take one impressionable 5 year old Aussie boy+Raise him in Chinatown+Ignorant controlling Mother+Built in Fetish for Asian school girls and voila! Mixed Race Babies by the Kangaroo Pouch Full. Bon Appetite!
    Chef Spencer needs a bloody good hiding I think. If you've got a thing for Asians, that's your own problem mate!


    So in Australia the White people are poor and Asians rich? In America it's different the richest people are still White. So how Asian is Australia you make it sound like it's majority Asian?
    The richest people in the US are Jews from what I've been told....

    No, its not that the Asians are the wealthiest.... just that the majority Asians that come to Australia are either really rich, or really poor (a lot of them refugees). Its not that the majority of people here are Asian either, its just that there are found everywhere in the city. In the rural areas (in WA anyway), the only non-whites that you'll really find are aborigines.

    On the positive side though, inter-racial mixing is relatively rare here. (For now.)


    I would like to exchange views with a Japanese, though, since I deeply admire their culture and history.
    I find it strange that so many here on these sorts of discussion boards so readily declare admiration for Asians.... I'm wondering if many of you are aware of just how much they despise and feel superior to Europeans (and those of European heritage).

    And the Japanese are the most hateful in my exerience.... we are typically stereotyped by them as "big" (fat and tall - always stated with a look of utter disgust on the face), ugly, greedy, unintelligent, lazy, smelly and dirty. I recall being a uni yrs ago, standing next to a group of Japanese girls and they were laughing hysterically.... a Malay comes over so they spoke in English for a bit for their sake and all along they were laughing about how you can smell a European before you can see them.... they stink apparently. According to them we shouldn't eat so much beef and dairy.

    Asians DESPISE whites.... I hope you all realise that.

    Perhaps you're all used to the negroes and Mexicans or something, who don't truly hold the same "high and mighty" attitude that Asians do.


    I would say that the best option is to teach your kids awareness, pride and values.
    Good advice, thank you.

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