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    Some general thoughts .

    Men's 5 Biggest Complaints About Women
    By Laura Snyder

    We know you've been reading all those women's magazines looking for ways to turn your guy into the perfect man, but we've got news for you. There are a few adjustments he wouldn't mind making to you. Here, his five biggest complaints.

    You Gossip

    He doesn't get the perverse pleasure you find in criticizing a complete stranger's weight, clothes and hair. And is there some kind of secret girl crime committed if her shoes don't match her handbag? Your own friends are even immune to your attacks. The men we spoke with suggested you swap your catty remarks with something more constructive, like mud wrestling.

    You Can Be Too Needy

    Part of the reason he tunes you out so frequently is because he's tired of your unabating need for his reassurance of how special you are, how solid the relationship is, and how trustworthy he is. Maybe you could just let him leave the house a few times without giving him the third degree over where he's going, who he'll be with and when he'll be back.

    You Test Us

    From the classic "What are you thinking?" to the dangerous "Is she prettier than I am?," he feels like you're always testing him with trick questions to determine if you're really soulmates. Just once he'd like to give you an honest answer. (And that's "nothing" and "yes", in that order).

    You Did Let Yourself Go

    Oh, you claim you haven't, and you can even point out that you still have all that sexy lingerie (which you never wear), but you're not nearly the dolled-up sex kitten you were when you two started dating. Yes, you can be cute all curled up in our old sweats without make-up, but he doesn't really want to see you with that facial bleach stuff on. Ever.

    You Use Sex As a Weapon

    He thinks it's so evil the way you can withhold nookie when you're annoyed with him. It's even worse when you do it in conjunction with that whole "I'm not mad" thing when he knows you are (he just don't know why). Maybe next time he'll hold out on you.

    Yeah, you're right. That'll never work.

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    You Use Sex As a Weapon
    It is a very effective one.


    I would like to know from the guys whether they have dated a lot of women who did these things??
    I envision a world where people dawning long white robes and elaborate headdresses run rampant down the streets, waving their arms in the air while screaming "we've gone mad, we've gone mad", like defrocked monks breaking the silence of ages past.

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    I have seen the neediness thing before. Women being of a "model class" in looks, yet they still feel uncertain of their appearance. In fact, I've rarely ever met a woman certain that she looked okay no matter how drop dead gorgeouse she was. It is a problem with many women.

    It does certainly work in the man's favor tho.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vanessa
    It is a very effective one.


    I would like to know from the guys whether they have dated a lot of women who did these things??
    Certainly have and it certainly didn't work.

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    You Gossip

    The men I know are more gossipy than the women.

    You Can Be Too Needy

    No, I like time alone and pursuing my own interests. Needy people just need something to focus on instead of making their whole lives revolve around attention from another person, which is rather pathetic.

    You Test Us

    I know better than to ask a guy "how do I look?" "does my ass look big?" and similar questions. I don't care about these stupid little girl games.

    As for women seriously asking for fashion advice from their boyfriend, they are idiots. What does a typical guy know about stuff like that? His exposure to "ideally fashionable" women comes from some men's magazine full of semi nude Hollywood sluts. If a woman seeks a detailed critique of her "look" she should talk to another girl or a queer hairdresser.

    And I can take a good guess at what my boyfriend is thinking about at any given moment, no need to ask.

    You Did Let Yourself Go

    Not yet. I don't plan on it until about age 60 or so.

    You Use Sex As a Weapon

    I would never withhold sex, where is the fun in that? If I'm annoyed sex might make me feel a little better.

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    I don't care about these stupid little girl games.

    The games. Yes, the stupid head games. More common among young girls than older women.

    As for women seriously asking for fashion advice from their boyfriend, they are idiots. What does a typical guy know about stuff like that?

    I happen to have good taste. I know what looks good and what doesn't. Most modern stuff is crap. How's that for fashion sense?

    And I can take a good guess at what my boyfriend is thinking about at any given moment, no need to ask.

    I thought you were single.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cosmocreator
    I thought you were single.
    I'm not married or engaged, so I guess I am.

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    I have seen the neediness thing before. Women being of a "model class" in looks, yet they still feel uncertain of their appearance. In fact, I've rarely ever met a woman certain that she looked okay no matter how drop dead gorgeouse she was. It is a problem with many women.
    Aw, be fair, guys...I`ve looked through the back pages of this forum
    The number of threads devoted to the way girls look, whether it`s the ideal racial type or simply the best colour of hair (I have come to the conclusion that the men here have a redhead fetish btw )
    so cut us some slack...if you are going to drool openly over every good looking girl, you have to expect some insecurity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oresai View Post
    Aw, be fair, guys...I`ve looked through the back pages of this forum
    The number of threads devoted to the way girls look, whether it`s the ideal racial type of simply the best colour of hair (I have come to the conclusion that the men here have a redhead fetish btw )
    so cut us some slack...if you are going to drool openly over every good looking girl, you have to expect some insecurity.
    I acknowledge when a girl is good looking, but rarely do I drool over someone. Today was one of those days, and she was a redhead.

    She also look like she was in her late 20s. It appears that I have a redhead cougar fetish.

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    Personally, it does not bother me if the man I am with tells me that a woman is good looking....

    ......what bothers me is if he lies and tells me that they are all ugly, only I am attractive, and then suddenly out of the blue he breaks and says some whorishly dressed slut (who is ugly, btw) is "damn good looking" and the next thing I discover is that he is cheating with some fat, ugly slut.

    That is why, when I was young, I never trusted a man who told me I was beautiful.
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