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  • women should be older

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  • men should be 0-5 years older

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Thread: Why Women Should Marry Young and Why They Should Marry Mature Men

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    Quote Originally Posted by zenos316
    Are you sure your Nordid?
    I have been told so.

    It is not in the Germanic Spirit to be so Materialistic.
    Material possessions are a selection advantage and facilitate survival. Are you preaching poverty?

    Quote Originally Posted by TisaAnne
    As a woman, I feel that marrying a man that is 5-10 years my senior to be the best choice. I like older, more mature men, but not a man that is 20 years older than me... that is too old.
    Well said.

    I don't want a 'sugar daddy',
    If I can get a husband, a lover, a 'sugar daddy' and a friend in one the better.

    I want someone who loves and respects me, and if he's poor as a pauper...then so be it.
    Better buy a dog.
    Mother is the name of God in the lips and hearts of children.

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    Post Re: why women should marry young and why they should marry mature men

    My common-law husband is 28 and I am 21. We both feel that the age gap is beneficial to our relationship.

    He is of the belief that as the male, he must be the provider and defender of the family. He is the type who likes to have his current situation in life stable before taking on any new challenges (an investment, hobby, relationship, etc.) I've found, in my short life, that this attitude seems very common among men raised in traditional households. The age difference gives him certain advantages in this area as he already has a successful career, a home and other conditions that he believes must be satisfied before embarking on a serious relationship.


    I, on the other hand, enjoy the experience more than the reward and am eager to share my life with a partner. Where he believes that, as the male, he must be the solid one with an established situation in life, I believe that, as the female, I must be more malleable and tolerant. As a young woman, it is still possible to mold my life decisions to best benefit the household, instead of an older female who might already be on a fixed path.


    My ultimate goals are set, but I have the luxury of time to grow and learn with a partner and prepare for the future together instead of trying to combine two established lives ten years from now, which I imagine could result in more hurtful compromises than entering into a relationship with a clear vision of your role from the beginning.

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    Post Re: why women should marry young and why they should marry mature men

    One last comment from me: Men should prey on women their own age :p
    All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream at night, in the dusky recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was vanity. But the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams, with open eyes, to make it possible.

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    Post Re: why women should marry young and why they should marry mature men

    Quote Originally Posted by Lucifer
    One last comment from me: Men should prey on women their own age :p
    Do you think men should prey on women?

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    Post AW: Re: why women should marry young and why they should marry mature men

    Quote Originally Posted by Rhydderch
    Do you think men should prey on women?
    Of course he does, afterall he's Jack the ripper.
    "Let your love towards life, be love towards your highest hope:
    and let your highest hope be the highest idea of life."
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    Post Re: AW: Re: why women should marry young and why they should marry mature men

    Quote Originally Posted by Prussian
    Of course he does, afterall he's Jack the ripper.
    Yes, Jack the Ripper was famous for that very reason was'nt he, I'd sort of forgotten that

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhydderch
    Yes, Jack the Ripper was famous for that very reason was'nt he, I'd sort of forgotten that
    Better than men preying on men
    All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream at night, in the dusky recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was vanity. But the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams, with open eyes, to make it possible.

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    Post Re: why women should marry young and why they should marry mature men

    Quote Originally Posted by Lucifer
    Yes, it is sick and diseased when a fourty year old man sticks his dick in a 15 year old girl, married to her or not. I know over a dozen guys my age who would kill someone if they did that.
    Even if he was married to her? Well, there are probably dozens of thirty-five to fourty year olds who would strangle foolish and cocky 18/19 year olds who are to fond of poking their noses into the business of other people

    This morality also seems to hold the customs of past ages over those of the present. Why is that?
    mmm.......I don't see why a morality which holds the customs of the present over those of the past is better than vice versa. In fact, an upstart custom has much more reason to be examined very thoroughly before it is accepted; afterall, the past has existed for a lot longer than the present.
    Personally, I wouldn't accept or refuse a custom on the basis of whether it is archaic or modern/upstart, because I believe in God and his laws; but I think for an atheist or agnostic, it would be more logical to stick with a custom which has been almost universally accepted throughout history, especially if he claims to be a traditionalist and when there is good reason to believe 'revulsion' at the custom is largely a result of feminism and other modernistic ideas
    Last edited by Rhydderch; Saturday, June 4th, 2005 at 04:56 AM.

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    Post Re: why women should marry young and why they should marry mature men

    Quote Originally Posted by Rhydderch
    Even if he was married to her? Well, there are probably dozens of thirty-five to fourty year olds who would strangle foolish and cocky 18/19 year olds who are to fond of poking their noses into the business of other people
    Those 35-40 year olds would be outnumbered by those they wish to strangle

    mmm.......I don't see why a morality which holds the customs of the present over those of the past is better than vice versa. In fact, an upstart custom has much more reason to be examined very thoroughly before it is accepted; afterall, the past has existed for a lot longer than the present.
    Well, by logic, the past has obviously existed for a lot longer than the present The present is one unmeasurably tiny moment, and the past is infinite


    Personally, I wouldn't accept or refuse a custom on the basis of whether it is archaic or modern/upstart, because I believe in God and his laws;
    To each his own

    but I think for an atheist or agnostic, it would be more logical to stick with a custom which has been almost universally accepted throughout history, especially if he claims to be a traditionalist and when there is good reason to believe 'revulsion' at the custom is largely a result of feminism and other modernistic ideas
    Ah, but there's two varieties of traditionalism - the historical traditionalism (what you're suggesting), and the eternal Traditionalism (similar to Platonism). You may very well consider my revulsion at you old decaying folks picking on our (i.e. young people) woman, but we are simply territorial Nothing to do with feminism at all.
    All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream at night, in the dusky recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was vanity. But the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams, with open eyes, to make it possible.

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    Post Re: why women should marry young and why they should marry mature men

    Quote Originally Posted by Lucifer
    Those 35-40 year olds would be outnumbered by those they wish to strangle
    Well, that's debateable, but I think the odds would favour the 35-40 year olds in a contest


    Well, by logic, the past has obviously existed for a lot longer than the present
    That's what I said, isn't it?

    Ah, but there's two varieties of traditionalism - the historical traditionalism (what you're suggesting), and the eternal Traditionalism (similar to Platonism).
    If I can judge from a post of yours which I came across a while ago, you seemed to imply the former of the two
    You may very well consider my revulsion at you old decaying folks
    Do you mean me? You may well be surprised to discover my age Your comment makes me realise that you've assumed my ideas on this issue have been moulded entirely by self-interest (unless you've judged I'm one of the 'old folk' because you think I'm a mature fellow )

    picking on our (i.e. young people) woman
    mmm.....since when did women of a certain age group belong exclusively to the men (or boys) of that age group? I would say unmarried women belong to their fathers, and that young men their age don't have a special monopoly over them (but of course I've never said I think men shouldn't marry until 35-40, so i don't believe older men should have a monopoly either).

    Nothing to do with feminism at all.
    You'll have trouble convincing me of that
    Last edited by Rhydderch; Saturday, June 4th, 2005 at 02:49 PM.

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