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    Why Is Nearly Every Single Woman On This Forum Taken While Most Men Are Single?

    I notice that most women on here are either married or in a relationship, but most men qualify as "single adults" in one way or the other. It is a pattern that you see pretty much everywhere you go (although more common in nationalist forums)- most of the women are taken, and most of the men are lonely, seemingly eternally waiting for a chance.

    Life as a man is a truly depressing experience.

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    Finding that person

    It is hard to meet people today in general. I come from a large international city and find myself inside more often than I like. Unfortunately, dry years do happen in dating, and you just can't give up on looking for a lifetime mate. I was in my mid 30's. Once, I tried all the hot spots too for men like pubs, bookstores, cafes, and church groups. When men are not looking, they are consumed with sports, wild friends and drinking so women go unnoticed. Women still like attention and being approached with a beverage or something in public. Single life is not compatible with married life, and a couple will go through some noticeable changes eventually to start a family too.
    Overall, women like men who are confident with goals and are active. At first, I like being friends with a man somewhat before I date him (maybe 2-3 months). When we finally want to settle down with a lifetime partner, we ask ourselves a few questions like: Would he make a good Dad chasing kids? Does he have a drinking problem? Can he hold a job? Does he spend too much monies? How does he handle his personal problems? We don't say these questions out-loud, but we think in terms of future and stability when we start looking seriously past dating. Women like mature men like men want attractive women. (I don't know you so please don't take things personally.) I live in an area where half the women stay home and have 2-5 children, so relationships and families take up so much time. Basically, you have to commit time in finding someone and then, maintaining a relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegenschlag View Post
    seemingly eternally waiting for a chance.

    ...for every man a woman of his race...
    Your problem in a nutshell. You "wait" that "someone" comes and "delivers" you a woman. No less than the "perfect" woman.

    It is this that forms the desire for "traditionalism", because hand in hand with this comes the imagination that there's "someone" who arranges a marriage for you and all you have to do is nod and then live happily ever after.

    In reality however you emanate desperation, and you'll drive every woman away with it sooner than you even had a chance to "rate" her with your checklist audit. And that's a problem you share with many men in the "nationalist" scene, who're in because mostly for this wrong conception of "traditionalism", while women are usually in to (re)create a social environment for their children that they already have and dont want them to grow up in a multiracial hellhole. Women in nationalist circles are three or four steps ahead of men, still they're being bashed on every occasion and have to bear all the misogynist drivel from the desperados.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegenschlag View Post
    most of the women are taken, and most of the men are lonely
    Unless there's serious polygamy going on where you live, this clearly doesn't make sense.
    And the day they sold us out, Our hearts grew cold
    'Cause we were never asked, No brother, we were told!
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    I'm single. I never married and don't have children. I'll be 50 in April so having children at this point would be a miracle. I don't see the point of getting married unless it is to have children.

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    Your problem in a nutshell. You "wait" that "someone" comes and "delivers" you a woman. No less than the "perfect" woman.
    No, I don't wait. Do you think I was born yesterday? I am well into my 30s now. In my 20s I approached dozens of women. Sometimes I would go out early in the day during the weekends and do nothing but contact women all day. Sometimes I would take classes or approach women in public transportation.
    The results?
    Over 90% hit you with the "I have a boyfriend" club. The rest flake out on you. Don't answer phone calls. In the rare event they do go on a date it turns out they already were dating somebody else or even had gotten pregnant by somebody else. Every piece of information points to the same thing: there are simply not enough women. The few that are single is because they want to be, and even they are probably juggling many thirsty guys all the time.

    This is, of course, leaving aside dating sites. Including those, the number of women I must have contacted climbs rapidly to the hundreds of thousands. Still the same results.

    And now, years later, what do I have to show for all of this time and effort? For all the heartbreaks, disillusions, broken promises and wasted youth? Nothing. Absolutely nothing but a rightful indignation with the opposite sex. A sex that (as a whole) votes for more immigration and in cases chooses to be with immigrant men before their own men. Please, don't give me stories about the middle aged white men that resort to marrying Southeast Asian women. It is a pathetic comparison.

    Now that I am older, I am not going to make the same mistake as during my 20s. This time, I am doing what I really want to do, and it does not involve being mass rejected and neglected by a bunch of people who couldn't care less about preserving the white race or the future of Europe. Who may belong to the most beautiful of races, but fail to appreciate or see any value in their male counterparts.

    It is this that forms the desire for "traditionalism", because hand in hand with this comes the imagination that there's "someone" who arranges a marriage for you and all you have to do is nod and then live happily ever after.
    Sort of like it is for women today, where they have everything more or less set up for them and they only need to choose a guy. But no, let's continue with the endless suffering of millions of men.

    In reality however you emanate desperation, and you'll drive every woman away with it sooner than you even had a chance to "rate" her with your checklist audit. And that's a problem you share with many men in the "nationalist" scene, who're in because mostly for this wrong conception of "traditionalism", while women are usually in to (re)create a social environment for their children that they already have and dont want them to grow up in a multiracial hellhole. Women in nationalist circles are three or four steps ahead of men, still they're being bashed on every occasion and have to bear all the misogynist drivel from the desperados.
    They are not "ahead." They are simply profiting from a privileged situation. If anything, going by your text, they are more disconnected than anything else. To an average single man, the concerns of married woman's family life are like the concerns of a dehydrated traveler in the middle of the desert for the perfume type of the princes and princesses. It is such an abysmal disparity that it beats any comparison.

    Are more men in the nationalist scene because they want a society where women are allocated to men?

    Perhaps on some subconscious level. On a more conscious level, they are in it because they want to stop the immigration and multiracial madness. I, however, recognize both motivations.

    Indeed, it should be the duty of a racial socialist incel state to find every man a woman where possible (since the number of women is limited), or provide a subracially adequate Waifu-robot replacement with an artificial womb otherwise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegenschlag View Post
    I notice that most women on here are either married or in a relationship, but most men qualify as "single adults" in one way or the other. It is a pattern that you see pretty much everywhere you go (although more common in nationalist forums)- most of the women are taken, and most of the men are lonely, seemingly eternally waiting for a chance.

    Life as a man is a truly depressing experience.
    There are some simple reasons for why women on this kind of forums are already taken.

    1. Men are more predisposed to Nationalism, and constitute the vast majority of Nationalists-minded people

    2. Men are more inclined to seek out discussion forums, while women are more inclined to spend time on visual social media platforms (Instagram/Facebook/Snapchat)

    3. The women who do end up on forums like this, have a much greater chance of finding a suitable partner online versus male members. And many of the female members who already were in relationships upon registering, were probably normies turned radical by a Nationalist-minded partner.

    Not that odd when you think about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Juthunge View Post
    Unless there's serious polygamy going on where you live, this clearly doesn't make sense.
    It does make sense because:
    a) more men are born than women
    b) far more men are fertile than women
    c) far more women remove themselves from dating/mating voluntarily than men

    Biology already dealt us men a very rough hand, but the advent of feminism, careerism, modernism, etc. that encourages women to "travel around the world" and spend their best years building a career instead of mothering children further reduces the female interest and increases the shortage of women available for relationships. Indeed, the few single women in universities/workplaces most typically are deliberately juggling guys and filtering them through arbitrary standards that they will always fail, while prioritizing studies and careers. They have no interest in having children (see no value in it) so they are in no rush and they just don't care.


    Quote Originally Posted by Žoreišar View Post
    There are some simple reasons for why women on this kind of forums are already taken.

    1. Men are more predisposed to Nationalism, and constitute the vast majority of Nationalists-minded people

    2. Men are more inclined to seek out discussion forums, while women are more inclined to spend time on visual social media platforms (Instagram/Facebook/Snapchat)

    3. The women who do end up on forums like this, have a much greater chance of finding a suitable partner online versus male members. And many of the female members who already were in relationships upon registering, were probably normies turned radical by a Nationalist-minded partner.

    Not that odd when you think about it.
    Those factors could explain why there are so few single women relative to men on sites like this, although the disparity is till extreme. It does not explain why that is the case (although not as pronouncedly) in pretty much every other social context. You mention Facebook. That site is another sausage fest even in neutral/nonpolitical groups. I would also take classes in seemingly "female" university topics such as languages, singing/choir, etc, and most women would be in relationships with only the least attractive (or sometimes most careerist) ones being occasionally "single" (in reality constantly rejecting guys on the side).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegenschlag View Post
    Those factors could explain why there are so few single women relative to men on sites like this, although the disparity is till extreme. It does not explain why that is the case (although not as pronouncedly) in pretty much every other social context.
    I'm not so sure there's a huge discrepancy between the share of single women and single men. But it depends on what country we're speaking of. China, Sweden and Germany, for instance, have a very skewed ratio between males and females, especially among people in fertile years (16-40). In Sweden, I believe there's around 125 men for 100 females in the age group 16-25. Of course that's going to affect the dating market. In addition to that, there's a larger percentage of men who establish second families after a divorce than women doing the same, but I'm not sure if the discrepancy is of a magnitude that makes a noticeable influence on the dating market.

    Where men and women do significantly differ, is their access to sexual encounters. I've seen statistics from the US showing there's around twice as many men as women between the ages 18 and 30 who've haven't had sex during the last year (around 30 percent of men, and around 15 percent of women).
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