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    Signs Its Time To Let Go And Move On

    20 Signs Its Time To Let Go And Move On



    We find out how strong we are in the moments of uncertainty life inevitably gives us. The unplanned events layoffs, death, disease or divorce can come crashing into our world at any moment.

    Then the questionable life changes crop up. Should I stay or should I go? Should I buy or save? Should I forgive or forget? Should I move or not? The shoulds become a thirsty internal craving as we try to process the best outcome for our life.

    The problem? In doing this, we often hold onto what no longer works.
    Many people who are in a negative situation are hanging on for dear life because they want to be brave and tough it out. They say Giving up is not an option, which so many of us believe.

    But when holding on to something hurts our health and potential to be happy, we have to look closely at why were choosing to stay.

    Life is a balance of holding on and letting go. We strive to make the right choice but how do we know when it is truly time to let go and move on?

    Romantic relationships, jobs, even places we live have an expiration date. Sometimes we hold on to things that arent working out of fear we wont find something better.

    Perhaps our greatest fear is the unknown, which is why so many of us grasp, hold on and manipulate our situations trying to control our surroundings. But the outcome is always the same: more pain, immense frustration and ginormous guilt and blame.
    To avoid the toxic outburst of staying in situations that no longer serve you, ask yourself if any of the following 20 signs apply.


    20 Signs Its Time To Let Go And Move On

    1. When your thoughts go to memories more than the present.

    2. When the situation causes you more pain than joy.

    3. When you expect, hope and plead for the person, place or situation to change.

    4. When you become complacent, bored or resentful.

    5. When the pattern persists even though you tried to fix it.

    6. When you feel alone, unheard or disrespected.

    7. When the situation is holding you back from growing and being who you want to be.

    8. When you stay, hoping and expecting things to get better.

    9. When you cry more than you laugh and love.

    10. When you feel exhausted emotionally, spiritually and physically.

    11. When you have lost your passion and joy.

    12. When you core beliefs and values have changed and you sacrifice who you are.

    13. When you stop having fun.

    14. When you fear this is the best it will be.

    15. When you force a smile to mask the pain.

    16. When you lose who you are and stop dreaming.

    17. When you hold on out of fear of the unknown.

    18. When you sense you are holding onto something meant to be let go.

    19. When the thought of being free of the situation feels expansive.

    20. When you believe in a better life for yourself.

    This list serves as a compassionate guide to help you make the right choice for you. If you found yourself saying yes to the majority of these questions, it may be time for you to take a step forward and let go. Trust your future and know you will be guided to happiness.

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