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    Quote Originally Posted by SpearBrave
    Dating is not dead, how do you think I found my girlfriend? We met went out on dates and now we live together.
    Millennials would consider you a rapist and casual sexist. 25% of millennial men think asking someone out for a drink is harassment. And 33% of millennial men and women say that if a man compliments a woman’s looks it's harassment. It's only a matter of time before such behaviour lands you in prison.

    Millennials are way too awkward to ask people out on dates in real life, as the latest video I posted in this thread points out.

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    Dating is dead, but millennials didn't kill it. Boomers and Gen X carry way more responsibility.
    I'm sorry, Chlod, but what I was doing back in 1979 has zero effect on anyone's (in)ability to find a partner 40 years later. This is an easy cop-out by folks who cannot accept their own failure.

    Personally, I just don't think there's enough social interaction going on these days. Everyone where I live has a car, does their shopping online and doesn't speak to (or even know!) more than about 6 other people in the entire street. Pubs, which were once the hubs of the community, are shutting down fast and youngsters in particular seem to be living in a world of their own, hooked up 24/7 to some kind of electronic appliance.

    'Modern living' is the scapegoat you are looking for here, and not a group of people who lived at a time when everyone still socialised with each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SaxonPagan View Post
    I'm sorry, Chlod, but what I was doing back in 1979 has zero effect on anyone's (in)ability to find a partner 40 years later. This is an easy cop-out by folks who cannot accept their own failure.
    You are not all Boomers. There's no point in saying that you aren't personally responsible for the death of the West or taking this and other criticism personal - again. But are you actually going to defend your generation? I'm not going to defend mine, it's not like they deserve it. What's the point?

    Personally, I just don't think there's enough social interaction going on these days. Everyone where I live has a car, does their shopping online and doesn't speak to (or even know!) more than about 6 other people in the entire street. Pubs, which were once the hubs of the community, are shutting down fast and youngsters in particular seem to be living in a world of their own, hooked up 24/7 to some kind of electronic appliance.
    Sure, but during which generation did we see the creation of structural problems such as rampant divorce & single parenthood? Hedonism? Abortion? Third wave feminism? The rejection of hierarchy? Which generation pushed for it? Even pedophilia was condoned. For all of this Boomers are responsible and all of these problems are still with us and bigger than ever before. These issues predate home computers (also a boomer invention), modern life and social isolation. Defending boomers then is defending the legacy of May '68. Do you want to die on that hill?
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    I think it's really strange that so many men and women these days don't want to date with the intention to find a life partner, but only a bunch of 'friends' with benefits, cause they don't want the responsibilities that accompany a monogamous relationship. Very sad really.

    Oh. But those who do seek marriage, they don't actually find it until they're nearly too old to make babies. And this is because they encounter too many so-called players along the way that don't want to live right, and only waste their time.
    Not all in life is at it appears to be.

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    There's no point in saying that you aren't personally responsible for the death of the West or taking this and other criticism personal - again. But are you actually going to defend your generation? I'm not going to defend mine, it's not like they deserve it. What's the point?

    Sure, but during which generation did we see the creation of structural problems such as rampant divorce & single parenthood? Hedonism? Abortion? Third wave feminism? The rejection of hierarchy? Which generation pushed for it? Even pedophilia was condoned. For all of this Boomers are responsible and all of these problems are still with us and bigger than ever before. These issues predate home computers (also a boomer invention), modern life and social isolation. Defending boomers then is defending the legacy of May '68. Do you want to die on that hill?
    Well then why don't folks today reject all of these social evils you mention?

    You'll never do so, Chlod, because you wouldn't last a single hour without the Internet that keeps you plugged into the 'manosphere' where you find (and pass on) all your negative views about women. You're far too comfortable where you are - you and millions more like you - and every INCEL you come across on sites such as YouTube confirms to you that you’re in the safest place, sheltered from the horrors of real-life meetings with the opposite sex.

    This is now obvious. SpearBrave has tried to tell you that there are people still dating out there and I’ve repeatedly mentioned my son’s former male classmates who have all found girls and (in many cases) got married. None of this works though, because you’ll just counter it with another depressing video about online dating that corresponds with your own perception of ‘reality’.

    As for 'Boomers’, this is just a vague term that is used for older folks nowadays and often has a pejorative undertone; especially when they become merged in people’s minds with the Hippies (that a good 90% of them were NOT!!!) so I just ignore it, along with all the online experts who seem to know more about life before they were born than those who were actually there. Never argue with the Internet historians, I say, because give them 20 minutes on Google and they can debunk everything you ever thought you knew about an era you once lived in.

    In any case, it’s always best to avoid sweeping demographic generalisations. If you think about it, when we’ve trashed all the women and condemned all the Boomers there aren’t many folks left for us to rally around, are there? You won’t even defend your own generation, Chlod, let alone the ones before and since, so the percentage of Germanics you actually like must be derisory. There are many others in our circles who use grandiose rhetoric about their love for the Germanic Race but by the time they’ve stopped moaning about the different groups within it you realise that we’re just the race they hate the least.

    This is why I don’t do all the age and gender politics; because it just plays into the hands of those who want to sow divisions and ageism (in both directions) is something that’s particularly counterproductive – especially when we end up bickering over whether it was the Millennials or the Boomers who (allegedly) killed dating For the record, I think it was the beta males with low testosterone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chlodovech View Post
    Millennials would consider you a rapist and casual sexist. 25% of millennial men think asking someone out for a drink is harassment. And 33% of millennial men and women say that if a man compliments a woman’s looks it's harassment. It's only a matter of time before such behaviour lands you in prison.
    The above is just plain nonsense and unrealistic.

    You millennials are no different then any other generation, quit playing the snowflake. Last year I traveled to most of the cities East of the Rockies, and I seen all kinds of young people holding hands and doing activities together as young couples do. We'll see what Europe looks like this year, but I would bet euro that it is no different. My point is a few of you spend your lives online in the cyber world, and that is not life, its actually a lie.

    I don't care what a few introverted cyber geeks think, I dated my girlfriend months before we did the horizontal monkey dance, dating someone does not mean you start sleeping together right away. Let them try and put me jail for having a normal loving relationship, I won't go without a fight to the death and I'm able to take more than a few with me.

    Millennials are way too awkward to ask people out on dates in real life, as the latest video I posted in this thread points out.
    Yet, I see the exact opposite everywhere I go (and that's a lot of places). I see young people dating and having fun.

    There is the problem, I bold typed it. These videos are not and real you can slant videos just by the content, since you watch a lot of these videos your algorithms bring more of them to you. It's like me watching hunting videos, the only difference is I actually go hunting and I know the videos do not give accurate portrayal of real life hunting.
    Life is like a fire hydrant- sometimes you help people put out their fires, but most of the time you just get peed on by every dog in the neighborhood.

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    Millennials would consider you a rapist and casual sexist. 25% of millennial men think asking someone out for a drink is harassment. And 33% of millennial men and women say that if a man compliments a woman’s looks it's harassment. It's only a matter of time before such behaviour lands you in prison.
    This ^ is precisely how the population is influenced and, ultimately, controlled. Some Jewish 'academic' releases the results of his/her latest 'study' on sexual harassment and the more gullible and timid millennials (in this instance) actually think that 25/33% of their peers will disapprove of such inoffensive behaviour.

    They therefore refrain from doing those things mentioned, which produces an excellent outcome for the cultural Marxists whose goal is to keep the genders apart and prevent normal heterosexual relationships from forming.

    Meanwhile, those who already have a poor view of females in general will repeat this disinformation to show how dangerous it is to go near them these days. Not only that but they extrapolate into the future with speculation about prison terms for men who are caught chatting up women, just to increase the fear level.

    Another triumph for the cultural Marxists, who by now have different groups interpreting the dire implications of some nonsense they've just invented. Even in the more enlightened circles it's disappointing to see how many folks take this stuff (including fake opinion polls) at face value instead of just dismissing it as complete rubbish

    Actually, I'd like to see them start locking up heterosexuals for complimenting each other. I think the results of this could be very interesting and make the Yellow Vest movement look like some banal playground squabble

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    Quote Originally Posted by LillyCaterina View Post
    I think it's really strange that so many men and women these days don't want to date with the intention to find a life partner, but only a bunch of 'friends' with benefits, cause they don't want the responsibilities that accompany a monogamous relationship. Very sad really.

    Oh. But those who do seek marriage, they don't actually find it until they're nearly too old to make babies. And this is because they encounter too many so-called players along the way that don't want to live right, and only waste their time.
    I share the same thoughts about these...

    I actually don't know for sure how young people are nowadays, but when I was young myself there were so many as you say... and the younger generations I've seen were even worse. That's one reason I had and still have just a few close friends. I don't like people who behave like that. I can be friendly with them, but no closer friends. I actually avoided and still avoid such people.

    I don't know why people are so scared about commitment... it's like the worst thing in the whole world for some. I've seen even married men who joke about how horrible is to be married... which of course affects the younger ones. Who would want to marry if they hear from older married people how horrible is to be married? And if it's that bad to be married, why don't they just divorce and end the whole thing instead of complaining about it while still being married? Some people are really strange... maybe they are masochists? But they still influence other people with their statements and complains...

    I think we live in some strange times... or not? I don't know what to think about it... However, I have no regrets about not having had sex with all the guys I was in love with and who only wanted me for one night stands... And all of them seemed serious about me in the beginning, until things tended to get more serious... Or I'm just bad at figuring out the intentions of the opposite sex... But well, I'm the type who cannot hide if she likes someone, no matter how hard I try to hide it seems to be useless... Sex for free, they may have thought? Oh, well, at least I'm proud I had the chance to do that but I didn't! If they were really interested in me, they wouldn't gave up on me that easy...

    I think I'm going to just wait... I've been chasing men I liked my whole life, and the only long lasting relationship I had was actually with one that I didn't chase. My only close friend who's a female said she never did anything about guys, were the guys who were chasing her all the time. I guess I should change my strategy too. I am however tired... I guess it's time to just wait and see... If there's someone for me I hope he'll find me, otherwise it's good to be single too. I have close friends and family who love me, so I have enough persons to share the love with.

    However... nowadays I think one must be really lucky to find their soul mate. But... if it's supposed to be it will be. The only problem is that some people create protective shields around them and refuse to see the obvious things when love finds them... and they miss it. True love doesn't come easy... but well, each person have what they deserve in the end.

    What goes around comes around, they say, right? Probably those who are single deserve it... and those who are not deserve it too... Maybe I didn't do anything bad in this lifetime, but who knows what I did in previous lifetimes? Maybe I'm just paying for it now... But well, I won't stop loving, so... I'm sure love will come back to me, sooner or later. (Better later than never, right?)

    Those who are single and don't like it, should learn how to love first... and open themselves to love. Sadly some people are in relationships without being in love... what good for? I had an attempt like that and I know how it is, it is horrible... just waste of time. I knew it so I broke up in less than one week. Better that way. 'Love' relationships without being in love are not for me. Better to be friends instead. And I'm still friends with that person, even if not so close friends anymore (life goes on)...
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    Quote Originally Posted by SaxonPagan View Post
    Actually, I'd like to see them start locking up heterosexuals for complimenting each other.
    I've seen a while ago a video of a little girl who was telling that kids (especially boys) in her school are encouraged to cross-dress like transgenders and behave like homosexuals, while kids who prefer to act normal are bullied and treated bad even by the teachers... because they say they should adapt to the norm and not dress and act 'normal'... It was on facebook and it was in Romanian... I thought former communist countries were exempted from this, but the madness is reaching everywhere...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chlodovech View Post
    And 33% of millennial men and women say that if a man compliments a woman’s looks it's harassment. It's only a matter of time before such behaviour lands you in prison.
    No, I won't let the SJWs win!



    I live in a blue state near a major SJW hive. I've found a few ways around this:

    1. Be smooth & not too direct. For example, 'Hey, you look really good today... that scarf looks like something a model would wear' is way better than, 'so I noticed you really fill out that bra, ergh, I mean beret.' You just slowly amp up the flirting and see if the woman flirts back. If you're a straight guy and you compliment a woman's clothes, she knows you're flirting. You have to be smooth & confident.

    2. You bring a wingman with and, if someone falsely accuses you of something, he can verify your version of events.

    3. If it's colored like a poison dart frog / mushroom then it probably isn't anything you want to flirt with in the first place (I learned this particular lesson the hard way).


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