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    Please try to answer on the topic. For other issues there are other threads. And there are private messages too. Thank you!

    Personally I had and still have more male friends than female friends, so this is why I am concerned about their complaints. Also, I want to be a good wife (if I'll ever have that chance), and I want my man to be happy with me. Good that now there's another thread about what makes a good husband. But this one is about what makes a good wife.

    I don't think this is the right forum for fights between men and women, so let's see more opinions...
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    For those interested, there is a counterpart to this thread started by Gefjon, What Makes a Good Husband?

    Let's try to keep each topic as its own and avoid gender wars. Constructive discussion is welcome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SpearBrave View Post
    believe our ancestors are our gods
    This reminded me of something...

    Well, some people believe in evolutionism, while there are also theories about humans descending from Gods, or from alien civilizations etc. When discussing things like that, my replica usually is something like "Alright, you're free to believe what you want to, if you want to believe your ancestors were monkeys... But personally I prefer to believe my ancestors were Gods, so that I'm descending from Gods!"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Víđálfr View Post
    Please try to answer on the topic. For other issues there are other threads.
    Quote Originally Posted by Resist View Post
    For those interested, there is a counterpart to this thread started by Gefjon, What Makes a Good Husband?

    Let's try to keep each topic as its own and avoid gender wars. Constructive discussion is welcome.
    Sorry. Fully agree. Just commented here before the other thread existed.

    Overall this thread is for guys/men ... not for me. LOL.

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    The positive qualities exhibited by the little lady I married are good examples men seeking prospective wives should take into serious consideration:

    Logical, when it comes to solving problems.

    Patient.

    Kind-hearted.

    Not materialist.

    Gentle natured.

    Not easily angered. But fierce to defend her husband and other loved ones against slander or threats.

    Fun loving.

    Sexy, when appropriate.

    Gregarious without being too extrovertive.

    Enjoys similar interests and activities.

    Would like to make babies if possible when all the proper conditions are met.

    Not unreasonably jealous. But practices and insists upon faithfulness.

    Of the same faith. (preferably).

    Age should not be a consideration. (Aside from meeting a legal age of consent, of course.)

    Of course, I could continue, but I'm sure you catch my drift here.

    Good hunting.
    Aside from an ever increasing number of mortals who have willfully chosen to worship Satan and his minions, our battle has always been against the powers and principalities operating surreptitiously throughout this twisted world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gareth Lee Hunter View Post
    But fierce to defend her husband and other loved ones against slander or threats.
    Didn't know if I should consider this a quality or not.
    No one should dare to say anything about my loved ones, but if they do it won't be good for them... That's a natural thing to do, I think. It was more difficult when a close friend was saying not nice things about my boyfriend, and viceversa... I just made them stop talking, I can't stand hearing things like that.
    And I have some history about things like these... normally I'm very nice and calm, but if someone dares to say something like that... I don't know what I am able to do, but then I suddenly become a fierce warrior, haha!

    I really don't understand how some people can stand hearing not nice things being talked about their loved ones. Personally I can't stand that. And I'm happy my ex was the same as me about things like these. A lot of his female friends were so jealous on me and talking bad things, I knew that of course, but he always was on my side, defending me. I'm not aggressive or violent by nature, but a few times I became so instinctively to defend my loved ones, when it was about physical threats.

    Also, some are saying bad things about their ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends. I don't think that's nice either. How can they do that? Once they were in love and then after they break up they start talking like that... that's a sign they didn't really love the other one. After a relationship they should at least have some respect. Even if it ended for one or more reasons, they should still be respectful and grateful for the nice things they shared together and for what was beautiful there. It's really bad when people don't have anything nice to say about their ex-es.
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    Let's not make this too complicated. A woman makes a good wife when she knows how to be a woman and appreciates her man being a man. If you want your husband to do something, don't try to be the alpha and boss him around... That sort of behavior is poison. He will either ignore you, leave you, or become a cuck. Which of those would you prefer? Exactly. DON'T DO THIS. If a man loves you, he will move heaven and earth for you if you ask nicely and are sweet and genuine about it. Here is a book for you to read...

    https://www.amazon.com/Surrendered-W.../dp/0743204441
    Most people think as they are trained to think, and most people make a majority.

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    From the description of the above mentioned book:

    The underlying principle of The Surrendered Wife is simple: The control women wield at work and with children must be left at the front door of any marriage.
    This is exactly what my ex was complaining about women: control! From his own experience, he told me he never liked women who wanted to control him. And that happened with almost every woman he attempted to be in a relationship with, and that's why he always came back to me, with no need to be with other women. But I have to admit I didn't like it when he was complaining that I was trying to control him, which was not in my intention, maybe just subconsciously, if he had it right. Well, still work to do on that.

    But as a woman I think to surrender in the arms of the man of my dreams, the man I love, is what I wish for the most!

    So that's a good title for the book.

    I think when you love each other enough all these rules are not necessary, all comes naturally. As wise men are saying, when love comes in, ego goes out. But when ego comes in, love goes out. When you try to control it's because you don't love and don't trust enough. No one can belong to us, no one can be 'our property', even if we are married. To 'own' and to control things, there's the problem, I think.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HoM
    Here is a book for you to read...
    The book reminds me of "the taken in hand" lifestyle/relationship. Sometimes there's a D/s element (Dom/sub .. hence kink) in these relationships, but it depends on its practitioners really. Taken in hand may be a worthwile avenue to explore for traditionally minded couples living in a modern day setting.

    And it also reminds me of another famous book...

    “Remember that all worlds draw to an end and that noble death is a treasure which no-one is too poor to buy.” - C. S. Lewis, The Last Battle

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    Philosophical question: can there be a good woman who is not a good wife? Or a good wife who is not necessarily a good woman?

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