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  • Yes, but I got married more than once.

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    Are/Were You in a Happy Marriage?

    Just being curious, again... How many of you are or were in a happy marriage? I suppose in the community here there should be more happy marriages than average, but I still wonder...

    I've seen very few married couples that are still happy together after many many years of marriage... quite rare... I hope with Skadi members the situation may be different.

    Also... if you're in a happy marriage, how long have you been married?
    Die Farben duften frisch und grün... Lieblich haucht der Wind um mich.

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    how long have you been married?
    40 years married, and had ups and downs, but happily married.

    2 children, 1 grandchild (14)

    Better to marry your own race and similar intellect.

    Life is about family not property and processions

    Essentials: Commitment and common sense, Give and take on many levels, realize the opposite sex thinks so differently.



    Our 40 th anniversary was the 9 June (1978), it went un noticed (until now). We are not party or card people.

    Many here on Skadi are too young to answer this one.

    I have never answered anything personal in my life before.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jagdmesser View Post
    Many here on Skadi are too young to answer this one.
    I know that, but we can learn from the experience of older and wiser ones.
    Looking at marriages around me this subject worries me, so I want to be prepared and to know how to make things work properly.

    Quote Originally Posted by jagdmesser View Post
    I have never answered anything personal in my life before.
    Thank you for the answer, it's really appreciated! And happy anniversary!
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    Yep, although this is my second marriage but I'm as happy as I can be. I wouldn't say me first marriage was exactly unhappy tho, we had our fun times... we just decided to go different ways I guess. Ya know the saying, sometimes ya gotta kiss a few frogs before you find your prince.

    Anyways, most folks on Skadi ain't married, maybe should ask if they're happy in their relationship or cohabitation arrangements?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gefjon View Post
    Anyways, most folks on Skadi ain't married, maybe should ask if they're happy in their relationship or cohabitation arrangements?
    Well, the idea of this thread was and is about marriages, for those who are married or who have been through that. So it's about more stable and serious relationships. Those who don't know how it is yet can learn from those who know and are willing to give any good advice.
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    Aside from the usual ups-and-downs that all married couples experience, my marriage has been tested by serious threats from health problems to homewreckers, and it's still very much intact.

    Maybe because we're in it for the long haul just for each other, and not some kind of deceitful ulterior motive.
    Not all in life is at it appears to be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Víđálfr View Post
    Well, the idea of this thread was and is about marriages, for those who are married or who have been through that. So it's about more stable and serious relationships. Those who don't know how it is yet can learn from those who know and are willing to give any good advice.
    Sure, however my point was there's lots of folks nowadays who are living as de facto married, just without the papers. I know a lot of folks who have been living together, even with kids but ain't married. Sign of the times, unfortunately.

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    I have been married twice.

    The first wife more or less was whore and still is to this day so I hear. She even got knocked up during our divorce and was not sure who the father was, it not possible for it to be mine.

    After a period of what I like to call pushing the extremes of personal freedom, I met my second wife and we were together 16 years, until we drifted apart.

    Is there such a thing as a happy marriage? I do have a girlfriend who I see when I'm home, but I travel a lot. Perhaps one I will try it again.
    Life is like a fire hydrant- sometimes you help people put out their fires, but most of the time you just get peed on by every dog in the neighborhood.

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    My first marriage was happy for the first two years. Then everything went bad. And my hubby beat me all up.

    Gareth hugs me when I feel bad. He never beats me up. He is my sweetie.
    Not all in life is at it appears to be.

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    Yes, I am quite happily married and have been so for over 20 years. What's more, we have recently become parents again, what was quite unexpected for us and has given us the chance to relive certain key/challenging moments in a marriage. Of course a marriage, like anything else, needs some work. However, on the whole I cannot say that I recognise the common complaints about married life. It feels neither suffocating nor like a duty/burden, I am still free in many respects and my family is my pride. I do suppose marriage takes a certain amount of "vocation", to call it so, it is not everybody's cup of tea. If you do seek marriage, it should be to someone you imagine being with 24/7. Although that is not always the case, but seeing yourself with that person on a permanent basis is a pretty fair way to envision it. What keeps our marriage together? Common goals and beliefs, dedication, loyalty, patience and last but not least, developing a certain sense of working in unison. Marriage is like any other team project and needs both sides involved.

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