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    Let`s face it, women and girls prefer jocks, thugs, criminals, drug-addicts, paedophiles, murderes and terrorists over me (they really do, you cannot escape the fact that this is the case). It should be one thing if these types of characteristics and behaviours was NOT seen as bad things in our society, but they are. And still, men like me find ourselves overrun by these "bad boys".
    Don't think that ALL women wish to be with a thug. There are women out there who still value a real honourable man who will provide them with securiy. It is true that they are becoming rarer all the time.

    Don't ever stoop to the level of a thug or a bad-ass. Yes it appears that society is overrun with these specimens...but also realize that the modern culture is neurotic and degrading at best. Men and women both, are indoctrinated.

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    Hej Sågverksarbetaren!

    I really understand and sympathize with your situation. However in my experience it is not impossible to find a girl to be with, but rather finding one with the right values is a challenge. Promiscuity is running rampant in Sweden as you know and in my opinion many Swedish girls simply is psychologically damaged by our over sexualized society and of course feminism.

    Now, I might be wrong but you are from Småland right? In my experience there are at least some girls in the woods of Småland that still have some traditional family values instilled in them. The problem is of course to find them. I don't know much about how many Christians there are in Småland, but couldn't' that be something to look closer at?

    Lycka till min käre landsman!

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    Listen more to MRAs like RockingMrE and less to the Stardusk/Barbarossaaa crowd.

    Try online dating. It'll cost you some money, but it'll help you get in touch with someone who is more like yourself. And it's great for weeding out anyone who might be sensitive about your politics before you meet them.
    Apfelstrudel mit Vanillesoße, yeah I said it, what are you gonna do?

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    A woman, and men who aren`t in my position, can never understand the loneliness I feel.
    Though I have never been in your exact situation of "What's Wrong with Me (Involuntary Celebacy) I certainly understand what loneliness is, which is accompanied with utter emptiness which seems to crush the heart little by little, not to mention the pain which goes along with this, despite friends and family. You have to be willing to take that first step out of that loneliness, and believe me, I know this is hard to do even if one does not have a low self-esteem. Yet your self-esteem must come from your heart and your soul, peace and love for yourself comes from within, not from someone else. How are you able to obtain these? That my dear, you will have to do on your own. Perhaps you have a trustworthy friend close by with whom you may share some of your thoughts, someone who can encourage you. But you will have to do the hard work yourself for yourself.

    From someone who is finally healing...almost three years of loneliness and utter emptiness - I wish you well, young man. Never give up!
    Georgia
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    Please don't immerse yourself in videos/websites/forums where guys pat themselves on the back about what "nice guys" they are. It's self-indulgent and pathetic. If I were a girl I wouldn't want to date a guy like that either.

    Learn to like yourself. Act like you're busy even if you're not(EG, if she texts you wait 15+ minutes to text back). Make a move early on if you're interested in a girl. Trying to be "friends first" never seems to help.

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    Let`s face it, women and girls prefer jocks, thugs, criminals, drug-addicts, paedophiles, murderes and terrorists over me
    Not so!

    Not me! Many English speaking lasses love European accents,love Europeans that have their own languages. The problem is that Europeans (like yourself) do snob people off that can't speak another European language nor is she has a low IQ small intelligence.

    I bet, if you come across one Germanic English speaking lass (That only speaks English) in Sweden that has a low IQ (low intelligence) you would snob her off! Would you?

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    Stop placing so much importance on what other people think of you. Just concentrate on becoming a guy you’re proud to be.

    Seriously, success with women is a consequence of having your life sorted – not a cause. Concentrate on becoming the person you want to be and you’ll find the girls slowly start to become more open to you, without you consciously having to change the way you interact with them.


    Another point: in modern Western societies there are currently two male ideals (more like anti-ideals!) – The thug and the faggot.

    Thug: conspicuous display of masculine virtues + conspicuous display of a lack of moral virtues.

    Faggot: conspicuous display of moral virtues + conspicuous display of a lack of masculine virtues.


    What you should be aiming for is a synthesis of the positives of the two (which of course is just the traditional ideal of masculinity): masculine virtue + moral virtue.

    Become a physically formidable, self-confident, in-control gentleman.

    To that end, I’d recommend boxing, Muay Thai (‘Thai boxing’) or a good form of kickboxing (one that allows kicks below the waist, and preferably knee-strikes.) That’s just one example of how you could go about doing this, of course.

    But do something like this for 6 months to a year and a half, and I guarantee you’ll start to ooze self-confidence.

    Hope that helps.

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    Some good advice here. Let me try to boil some of it down and maybe add a bit.

    1.) Learn to not care what others think. Some people act like children their whole lives, and some will put you down and hurt your feelings for no reason but to make themselves feel better.

    2.) Understand that everything is life is strife, is battle, and the victor in battle is the one who maintains the initiative. That means play to your strengths. Don't play the game the way others try to box you into, maximize your strengths and avoid situations and activities that showcase you weaknesses.

    3.) Swedish, right? Embrace your Viking heritage. Go learn some combative martial arts, don't just work out. Since most European arts revolve around weaponry, and you live is a pretty socialist country, the unarmed arts are probably your only choice. I don't know if you have what I'm talking about over there, but here we call it "combatives". It's a mixed martial art based upon actual fighting, not tournament-style fighting. It's about taking an opponent apart, not scoring points. You can get an idea of the lower levels by downloading a free copy of "Kill or Get Killed" by Rex Applegate http://www.resist.com/Kill_or_Get_Killed_Pt1.pdf and look at the unarmed combatives section. The moves are easy to learn, hard to forget, and brutally effective. Most combatives courses start here, and add elements of Brasilian Jiu Jitsu, Escrima, Systema, etc as you go. This will help instill the manly, testosterone laden aggressive spirit you seem to lack.

    4.) Embrace you Viking heritage. Being an expert at words in negotiations and diplomacy was as highly regarded as skill with weaponry. Be well read, have a broad base of knowledge to draw upon. Be quick of wit. The victor in an argument or debate is often not the one with the best argument, but the one who can come back the quickest, and turn the argument back to their terms (again, gaining and maintaining the initiative).

    5.) Get a life. Busy yourself with something. If your job isn't the one you want, then work on moving up. This may or may not require further education. Make a plan and go for it. Get hobbies. When people (especially women) ask "What are you doing this weekend?" have an answer. Women like men who have a plan, and have something to do. Whether or not you're a loser, women will consider you one if you have nothing to do all the time.

    6.) Have character. Be competent at what you do. Learn to be better, and just DO IT.

    7.) Get a good game face. Whenever you get kicked down, not just by girls, maybe you screw up at work, or something. Don't let them see you sweat. Just act like you are thinking it over, and brush it off (for girls), or honestly take the ass-chewing, and put effort into fixing the problem if at work. But don't let it faze you. Go home later and cry or get plastered. We all do it at one time or another. Just don't break down in public.

    8.) Illegitimus Non Carborundum -- Fake Latin for: Don't let the bastards grind you down.

    You notice I gave no advice on how to pick up women? Because there is no "one way", each is different. I've picked up women by being a nice guy always holding the door for them, saying thank you when they did the same for me, or what not, and they start talking because "It's nice to find a guy with manners."

    I've picked them up by being a dick. One time there was a girl at work loudly talking abotu going out with one of the guys in my work area. I walked up behind them and when she turned to look, I had my sharpie marker out like I was writing her number on my hand, and said "So any time is good?" She gave me this kind of sneering laugh. Crash and burn, right? Not really. For the next week, I'd still be polite, and say "hello" if she said it first, or hold doors open if she happened to be the one behind me, but other than that I acted like I didn't want anything to do with her. After a week, week and a half, she walks up, stuff a piece of paper in my shirt pocket and walks off. Ont he paper was her phone number and, underlined, 6pm SHARP. Didn't go anywhere as a relationship, but I got a few dates out of it.

    Don't get caught up with looks. Find a girl you would like to actually be with. She may not be the prettiest girl around, but it's better to be with someone you like, than someone others like.

    You'll probably think I'm a bad guy for saying this, but the ugly girls can be a gateway to the pretty ones as well. Go out with the ugly girl and treat her like she's the best thing since sliced bread and back pockets put together. The prettier girls will start pursuing you. I didn't understand why they did this, so I asked a woman friend of mine and she said "Because they see you treating someone they consider beneath them better than they usually get treated. So they think 'If he treats that thing that well, imaging how he'll treat me.'".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Georgia View Post
    Though I have never been in your exact situation of "What's Wrong with Me (Involuntary Celebacy) I certainly understand what loneliness is, which is accompanied with utter emptiness which seems to crush the heart little by little, not to mention the pain which goes along with this, despite friends and family. You have to be willing to take that first step out of that loneliness, and believe me, I know this is hard to do even if one does not have a low self-esteem. Yet your self-esteem must come from your heart and your soul, peace and love for yourself comes from within, not from someone else. How are you able to obtain these? That my dear, you will have to do on your own. Perhaps you have a trustworthy friend close by with whom you may share some of your thoughts, someone who can encourage you. But you will have to do the hard work yourself for yourself.

    From someone who is finally healing...almost three years of loneliness and utter emptiness - I wish you well, young man. Never give up!
    Georgia
    Thank you for your kind words. I hope you will live a long and happy life :-).

    Quote Originally Posted by Berlichingen View Post
    Please don't immerse yourself in videos/websites/forums where guys pat themselves on the back about what "nice guys" they are. It's self-indulgent and pathetic. If I were a girl I wouldn't want to date a guy like that either...
    Sure, I agree. It is however a real issue and if we always make a big deal out of the fact that cultural marxism and feminsim has destroyed females, it would only be fair to point at the other extreme once in a while (they also do a good job exposing feminist hypocricy).

    ...Learn to like yourself. Act like you're busy even if you're not(EG, if she texts you wait 15+ minutes to text back). Make a move early on if you're interested in a girl. Trying to be "friends first" never seems to help.
    I know my self-esteem is my biggest problem. It is one thing telling myself that I am good enough, it as another thing looking into the mirror and really believe that. However, I should try to adapt the attitude that the girls that isn`t interested in me, well, then that is their loss.

    If anyone is interested, I might add that i suffer from OCD (Objective Compulsive Disorder), sometning i do not consider a +. But I have learned to deal and live with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heidixx View Post
    Not so!

    Not me! Many English speaking lasses love European accents,love Europeans that have their own languages. The problem is that Europeans (like yourself) do snob people off that can't speak another European language nor is she has a low IQ small intelligence.

    I bet, if you come across one Germanic English speaking lass (That only speaks English) in Sweden that has a low IQ (low intelligence) you would snob her off! Would you?
    No, I can`t imagine myself doing that.

    Don`t worry ;-).

    VedicViking and Bearkinder: Great posts. Thank you.

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