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    Is Loving = Lying ?

    I read in this forum, someone saying romantically loving someone is lying....
    I thought if human are delusional beings mastering self deception and discarding cognitive dissonance then yes...

    Anyone can explain how ,why ?

    I don't know it that question belongs to relationship or philosophy forum...

    I am talking about romantic love man-woman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dustan View Post
    ...I thought if human are delusional beings mastering self deception and discarding cognitive dissonance then yes...
    So does that mean you believe love is capable between Man and Woman only under certain circumstances? What would that be?

    And to answer your question, I don't know. I would guess there is a special "link" that mostly homogenous couples could share...

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    I think there is the genetic aspect yes....
    Actually I am not sure what to think of it.

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    Hmm, I am a little concered about you confusing love and lust.

    I think that actual love, in logical terms, is the appropriate mate selection and not just a feeling between two different individuals... while lust is some type of mental confusion or schizophrenia that overwhelmes logic.

    We are told there is no greater love then to give ones life for friends. So it is not restricted to a sexual nature. In fact, it is pretty violent, but the opposite of bloodlust.

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    Fear=Lying

    Love is unity there is no lying.
    weel nich will dieken dej mot wieken

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    You mean love is a mate selection ?

    or do you mean love is the drive that pushes someone to select a mate ?
    that would make more sense; no ?

    I stop here guys since every post I send are under aprobation and monitoring......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dustan View Post
    You mean love is a mate selection ?

    or do you mean love is the drive that pushes someone to select a mate ?
    that would make more sense; no ?

    I stop here guys since every post I send are under aprobation and monitoring......
    Neither, like I mentioned before, God shows that love is a concept. It is not sexual or physical, but what is right and true.

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    love and lying

    Anything that comes from the heart is pure truth, you cant even lie to yourself when it comes to this

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    Lightbulb Wow I'm quoting myself...

    Quote Originally Posted by Powmia View Post
    Neither, like I mentioned before, God shows that love is a concept. It is not sexual or physical, but what is right and true.
    To further iterate point, God tells us to arrange marriages for or children (Homogenously) and this is/can be applied before they are even born.

    Further proof of the concept of love.

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    As I see it, Love is not selfish or demanding. Love is giving and caring, and sharing.
    To me, Loving someone means Caring enough about that person that their Happiness and Well-being is more important to you than your own.

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