View Poll Results: Why are you single?

Voters
135. You may not vote on this poll
  • I haven't found the right person yet. (I'm still looking).

    70 51.85%
  • Traumatic experiences with past relationships. (I've decided not to look anymore).

    5 3.70%
  • I want to focus on my career or studies.

    11 8.15%
  • I don't like being tied down/I'm only into casual relationships.

    4 2.96%
  • My significant other passed away and I don't wish to replace him/her with anyone.

    3 2.22%
  • I'm asexual or genuinely not interested in relationships.

    7 5.19%
  • I consider myself too ugly, etc. to be in a relationship.

    9 6.67%
  • I consider myself too selfish and prefer being on my own.

    7 5.19%
  • Other (Specify please).

    19 14.07%
Page 35 of 35 FirstFirst ... 25303132333435
Results 341 to 343 of 343

Thread: Why Are You Single?

  1. #341
    Funding Member
    „Friend of Germanics”
    Funding Membership Inactive
    Rodskarl Dubhgall's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2004
    Last Online
    2 Minutes Ago @ 02:01 PM
    Status
    Prolonged Absence
    Ethnicity
    Germanic
    Gender
    Posts
    4,169
    Thanks Thanks Given 
    10,678
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    491
    Thanked in
    432 Posts
    Quote Originally Posted by Winterland View Post
    I can only suggest if people want to marry that it takes lots of patience to find a life partner. I think starting with what you share and have in common automatically builds up a foundation with less conflicts or struggles. The pillars are being honest to each other from the start and mutual caring. From my experience, it's difficult to find a caring and open person. Dating is easy but maintaining a long healthy relationship is a different matter.
    Disliking the same things can also avoid conflict, because there's mutual understanding what and why they are bothersome. As a teenager, I worried less about silver and gold than what marriage and parenthood would be like. I knew that it's all for nowt without a family, so resolved on that and just went about working without any grand scheme. I knew I wasn't going to have a mansion, Corvette or travel around the world, but those aren't necessities either. Life ain't worth living without love and I will give of myself how my heart tells me, so I can sleep at night in the confidence of others being taken care of.




    full stop

  2. The Following User Says Thank You to Rodskarl Dubhgall For This Useful Post:


  3. #342
    Active Funding Member
    „Friend of Germanics”
    Skadi Funding Member
    John Smithwick's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2018
    Last Online
    @
    Ethnicity
    Anglo-Canadian
    Ancestry
    British/German/French
    Country
    Canada Canada
    State
    Ontario Ontario
    Gender
    Occupation
    National Folk Faith ;)
    Politics
    Ethno-Nationalist
    Religion
    Pagan/Christian/UU
    Posts
    157
    Thanks Thanks Given 
    367
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    112
    Thanked in
    73 Posts
    Quote Originally Posted by John Smithwick View Post
    Then I met a fantastic Christian racialist conservative girl and we've dated on and off for the last three years, except she smokes (indoors), and lives with her disabled mother who also smokes indoors. We bluffed each other: her about quitting, and me about being able to live with it full-time. I bought them vapes, swedish snus, nicotine lozenges - they wouldn't convert. The smoking is integral to their being. So that's a wrap for good (people shouldn't bother with bluffing/false advertising/hoping for unrealistic change).

    Now, it's back to the drawing board.
    We got back together and now she might be pregnant (although we're on a small hiatus), so I think I'll just commit to dying 10-30 years earlier from cancer. Interestingly, she mentioned her mother smoked full time during pregnancy and afterwards (same as her mother's mother - her grandmother; and her grandmother lived until age 85 smoking close to a pack a day indoors (including in the Canadian winter with all the windows shut), and didn't die of cancer but heart failure). Some people have the genetics for it.
    We need a reservation system for our people and our own ethnic-nationalist faith, where we'll have sermons about our people and nations, real history, science, philosophy, etc., in addition to our older religions. Throw in some open bar nights, comedy club hours, music and dance, etc., and it'll be a cracker barrel of good times lol.

  4. The Following User Says Thank You to John Smithwick For This Useful Post:


  5. #343
    Senior Member
    Gegenschlag's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2019
    Last Online
    3 Minutes Ago @ 02:00 PM
    Ethnicity
    Germanic
    Ancestry
    Swiss-German
    Subrace
    Mostly Hallstatt, some UP
    Gender
    Family
    Single adult
    Politics
    to every man a woman of his race
    Posts
    384
    Thanks Thanks Given 
    67
    Thanks Thanks Received 
    102
    Thanked in
    75 Posts
    Quote Originally Posted by John Smithwick View Post
    We got back together and now she might be pregnant (although we're on a small hiatus), so I think I'll just commit to dying 10-30 years earlier from cancer. Interestingly, she mentioned her mother smoked full time during pregnancy and afterwards (same as her mother's mother - her grandmother; and her grandmother lived until age 85 smoking close to a pack a day indoors (including in the Canadian winter with all the windows shut), and didn't die of cancer but heart failure). Some people have the genetics for it.
    Coincidentally, I was reading your previous post right before you answered. What was crossing my mind was that her smoking was surely not a good enough reason to miss out on an opportunity.

    Dying 10 years earlier? Maybe, but if you don't have children, you will genetically die 100% guaranteed.

    Good luck!

  6. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Gegenschlag For This Useful Post:


Page 35 of 35 FirstFirst ... 25303132333435

Similar Threads

  1. Are You Better Off Single?
    By Phlegethon in forum Men, Women, & Relationships
    Replies: 105
    Last Post: Sunday, February 9th, 2020, 04:12 AM
  2. Single Parenthood
    By Verðandi in forum Parenthood & Family
    Replies: 18
    Last Post: Friday, August 30th, 2019, 09:52 AM
  3. 'We Never Had a Single Conversation with a Swede'
    By The Aesthete in forum Sweden
    Replies: 78
    Last Post: Wednesday, March 7th, 2012, 10:05 AM

Tags for this Thread

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •