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  • I haven't found the right person yet. (I'm still looking).

    70 52.24%
  • Traumatic experiences with past relationships. (I've decided not to look anymore).

    5 3.73%
  • I want to focus on my career or studies.

    11 8.21%
  • I don't like being tied down/I'm only into casual relationships.

    4 2.99%
  • My significant other passed away and I don't wish to replace him/her with anyone.

    3 2.24%
  • I'm asexual or genuinely not interested in relationships.

    7 5.22%
  • I consider myself too ugly, etc. to be in a relationship.

    8 5.97%
  • I consider myself too selfish and prefer being on my own.

    7 5.22%
  • Other (Specify please).

    19 14.18%
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    Quote Originally Posted by Valkar View Post
    As mentioned begore, the big problem with girls (in my country) is that they are very very aloof/Detached/distant. I hate it. Girls never send signals. It has to be the male.
    with a lack of signals, i at least try to send them on my own. But that doesnt really work well.
    That is so true..

    Multiple times i have heard of other people that a certain girl liked me, when i hadn't noticed a single sign of this. Not even eyecontact, nothing... It could also be that i'm just really bad at noticing these things, could be

    I've also noticed that at places like bars/clubs girls/women are extremely bound to their circle of friends/acquaintances. It often seems like they only notice those people. This is also true (to a lesser extent) outside in cities. In the rural areas however, girls (often quite pretty ones) do seem to notice me and act downright flirty (which of course, me being superbad at this flirting game, do not pick up at the moment but always realize too late...).

    I truly hate this partner seeking thing
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    Authentic males don't need a signal, of course not many exist anymore. They're focused on pursuing.
    Under Capitalism man exploits man; under socialism the reverse is true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by feisty goddess View Post
    Authentic males don't need a signal, of course not many exist anymore. They're focused on pursuing.
    Authentic males are pursuing? Does this mean autentic females are waiting to be pursued? It sounds kind of cavemanish.

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    @primus
    I must note that i'm at the beginning stage of my life. I still have a long way to go.

    I did 5 years of grammar school. It just looks like girls are to busy with school and jobs/career.
    Strangely enough it seems here that woman who are less educated have less trouble with men than highly educated woman.
    I for instance have no trouble with talking to lower educated woman. I like conversations with them. In contrast to talking to girls at Grammar school where the typical akwerd silence is more apparent.

    Well, thats my situation and thoughts. And it might be my stupid guessing. But im not the only one who has this situation here.

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    I like clubs for the fact that social groups fade more. I meet new people and women there, who are less shy than ever.
    One of the pros of clubs/bars and alcohol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Primus View Post
    Authentic males are pursuing? Does this mean autentic females are waiting to be pursued? It sounds kind of cavemanish.
    Nevermind, you don't understand. If males were more socially in-tune like they were in the old days before video games and feminism they wouldn't have as many of the problems they do now. The modern culture has changed the way men think. It's not just about how they pursue women, that is just a consequence of the disturbance in the social hierarchy the loss of culture has created.
    Under Capitalism man exploits man; under socialism the reverse is true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by feisty goddess View Post
    Nevermind, you don't understand.
    I misread your post; I think I see what you mean.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Primus View Post
    I misread your post; I think I see what you mean.
    Basically the culture we have now is not teaching boys how to be men and is therefore robbing them of their masculinity. Heterosexual men are masculine, but not usually "authentically" so. You will notice that tight nit communities of people such as Hispanics, Greeks, Polish, etc. have more authentic males because they are being influenced by their family which teaches them how to be men. It's very hard to explain and I'm not sure I've portrayed my idea the way I intend to.

    Love that results in babies and a lifetime partnership rarely occurs without the man actively pursuing the woman. There's nothing "cavemanish" about it, it's just biology. The man is even more attracted to a woman he is pursuing.
    Under Capitalism man exploits man; under socialism the reverse is true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by feisty goddess View Post
    Basically the culture we have now is not teaching boys how to be men and is therefore robbing them of their masculinity. Heterosexual men are masculine, but not usually "authentically" so. You will notice that tight nit communities of people such as Hispanics, Greeks, Polish, etc. have more authentic males because they are being influenced by their family which teaches them how to be men. It's very hard to explain and I'm not sure I've portrayed my idea the way I intend to.

    Love that results in babies and a lifetime partnership rarely occurs without the man actively pursuing the woman. There's nothing "cavemanish" about it, it's just biology. The man is even more attracted to a woman he is pursuing.
    No, I think I get what you're saying.

    Modern white males are being neutered by commielibtardism and this is especially true of the white male as it's been known in the US, the WASP male (although this is generic, white males are being de-balled in Britain, Germany, etc.).

    With suitable potential mates of the same ethnicity, it's no wonder why so many white girls are turning to brown-colored creatures.

    The default of white masculinity is being destroyed, that of the heroic warrior, chivalric gentleman, or whatever iteration you prefer. In its place is a simpering, ghastly, and castrated thing that doesn't deserve to be called a man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by feisty goddess View Post
    Authentic males don't need a signal, of course not many exist anymore.
    I was going to say the exact thing about females.

    Most seem to be gold digging bitches concerned only with wealth and material goods-neither of which interest me. The ones that are genuinely good people are taken.

    Rarely do I ever meet a volkish girl, and even rarer is mutual attraction.

    I have myself to offer (And that has always been more than enough in the past) and if that is not enough today then I don't want anything to do with the Girl and I would prefer to be alone than with someone artificial.

    I left the city for numerous reasons, one being the fact that it is full of fake people-both male and female.

    I've had one long term relationship (6 years) but I ended it as I didn't like where it went.

    Another I had was great...while the girl was in my country but when she had to go back to Norway for various reasons we struggled to keep it together and ultimately it failed-even though I was planing on moving to Norway, it didn't last long enough for me to do so.

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    Side note: the rise of social media has made the situation worse for my generation. Some of us rather waste hours of time boring themselves on facebook rather than actually doing things with friends.
    And if we check who invented facebook. Lo, guess who gets that advertising money?. ^.^

    And of course browsing the net all day will not really improve masculinity.

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