View Poll Results: Why are you single?

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  • I haven't found the right person yet. (I'm still looking).

    68 53.13%
  • Traumatic experiences with past relationships. (I've decided not to look anymore).

    5 3.91%
  • I want to focus on my career or studies.

    10 7.81%
  • I don't like being tied down/I'm only into casual relationships.

    3 2.34%
  • My significant other passed away and I don't wish to replace him/her with anyone.

    3 2.34%
  • I'm asexual or genuinely not interested in relationships.

    7 5.47%
  • I consider myself too ugly, etc. to be in a relationship.

    8 6.25%
  • I consider myself too selfish and prefer being on my own.

    7 5.47%
  • Other (Specify please).

    17 13.28%
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    Is there a Skadi.net Singles site?

    Huh? Huh? :0)

    I understand that there was in the past.

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    well I don't really know maybe it is because I just don't get out and look anymore. I would love to get married one day and have kids but when it comes to the dating scene I hate making the drive to town and then I can't just be like come back to my place when it is like twenty miles from everywhere. who knows maybe she'll show up on the old front porch one day lost and smell my cooking, or maybe that'll scare her away. wow been so long I’m thinking of how the stray hunting dogs show up. yep, I really need to get out on the town more.

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    I'm single because I'm not able to support a family yet, and I'm not comfortable dating when I'm not capable of making a meaningful commitment. I avoid casual relationships on principle. Also I don't really know where to find a woman that wants to raise a family, who is also intelligent and kind and attractive. And who will be happy with the fact that I went into the humanities instead of physics or biology and probably will never make much money. Do those exist?

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    I haven't found the right person yet. Not that easy to find a partner with similar interests.

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    I am single because I was just dumped randomly a few weeks ago. It was pretty traumatizing because he tricked me into loving him with his lies. Everything was perfect and then he destroyed me and dumped me by sending me a text message. I think I will be single for along time now in order to heal myself and truly give myself away to the one who deserves me.
    All things must come to the soul from it's roots, from where it is planted. The that is beside the running water is fresher, and gives more fruit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ælfrun View Post
    I am single because I was just dumped randomly a few weeks ago. It was pretty traumatizing because he tricked me into loving him with his lies.
    Cheer up, knobheads come in all guises. Sometimes you'll find that he who came on a radiant white steed in golden garment was but a begger dressed as king. You're pretty and still young, you'll find a lid ornate and true enough to suit you upon time.
    -In kalte Schatten versunken... /Germaniens Volk erstarrt / Gefroren von Lügen / In denen die Welt verharrt-
    -Die alte Seele trauernd und verlassen / Verblassend in einer erklärbaren Welt / Schwebend in einem Dunst der Wehmut / Ein Schrei der nur unmerklich gellt-
    -Auch ich verspüre Demut / Vor dem alten Geiste der Ahnen / Wird es mir vergönnt sein / Gen Walhalla aufzufahren?-

    (Heimdalls Wacht, In kalte Schatten versunken, stanzas 4-6)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hersir View Post
    I haven't found the right person yet. Not that easy to find a partner with similar interests.
    I can empathize with this a great deal. I've met several nice girls but nothing has ever "clicked," sadly.

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    I just haven't found the right person yet. I'm finishing up a degree so I'm perpetually broke and don't get out as much as I would like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Þoreiðar View Post
    I am single and have always been, since my teens and through my 'adult life'. Casual relationships have never made any sense to me. In fact, most relationships I see around me doesn't make much sense to me. There doesn't seem to be any deep emotional and spiritual connection. It seems more like a job contract, in many ways, fueled by sexual needs and a fear of being lonely.

    Even as far back as I could remember, to primary school, I would turn down any advances (although it is more of a 'role play' at those ages) if I couldn't imagine myself being with that person indefinetely. And I've kept that attitude all my life. Anything else would be betrayal towards my future wife, whom deserves all my devotion and faithfulness.

    I find that a very honorable attitude. This is definitely an ideal I can give my full support as well, and probably the very opposite of the leading trends with regards to sexuality and relationships in this age of decadence and irresponsibility. I wouldn't want to start a relationship with someone unless I was pretty damn sure it had a great chance of developing into a constructive and long-lasting relationship, and hopefully, a family.
    But let me say that I haven't really started looking around yet, as I haven't felt any real need for a relationship of that kind at the time. I just hope these things will solve themselves before I become too old. Because I really wish to start my own family some time in this life, and raise ethnically and culturally aware children.

    So my answer is mostly this:

    I haven't found the right person yet. (I'm still looking).

    Combined with some other elements, such as this:

    I want to focus on my career or studies.
    "Man evolved in cooperating groups united by common cultural and genetic ties, and it is only in such a setting that the individual can feel truly free, and truly protected. Men cannot live happily alone and without values or any sense of identity…" - Alain de Benoist
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    I wanted to vote but it wouldn't let me. Yet another rejection. What is it about me? Just kidding.

    Up to maybe five or ten years ago I would have voted the first answer, haven't found the right one. But over the last few years I've slowly changed to the I'm too selfish answer. I just don't have the energy to deal with the stress of a relationship at this point in my life. I don't think I have a lot of years left, so I'd just like to enjoy them in peace and quiet. God, I'm so tired...

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