We should look at the Scottish and SNP's drive for independence with a bit of moderation. It is a fact that Scotland's ties with England are long, but also problematic. There have been many wars and battles between the two. Of course that last 100 years it has been, to my knowledge, quiet. But Scotland is still largely ruled from London.
When a people are striving for independence, the initial phase is always characterized by a strong move away from the former ruler. Later on, after the establishment of independence, the relation will normalize again and a more healthy partnership is possible. But first one has to go through the initial separation phase. There is no way around it. And establishing new partnerships, such as now with Scandinavia, is a normal and even necessary aspect of that first phase. It's a process of first finding your own path.
From an English point of view it might be scary or frustrating that the Scots are moving towards independence. But firstly they have a right to be independent as a people and secondly, they are not going anywhere and will in a second phase of the process most likely reestablish close ties with England.
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