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    Women and Sexual Attraction

    What exactly is sexual attraction like for women? Is it pretty much the same as it is for men, with a little bit extra?

    I keep hearing/reading that it's not so much the looks that count for women, but the personality and the ability to provide her security. Men go for beauty, and women go for... security/intelligence/etc.

    As a man, I can tell you that I can get "turned on" by physical characteristics pretty fast, but does this also happen with women? Can a woman see a man and think "wow, his arms, legs, and chest are really sexy, I'd like to put my hands on them"? Can women get aroused by physical characteristics as much as men?

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    Of course they can. What men like us are attracted to is the physical manifestations of fertility and health, women are not very different. If a man looks healthy, fertile, and in addition to that strong, they will have the same reaction you and I have when we see a woman who looks fertile and healthy. I've had plenty of women tell me I looked sexy, and I'm guessing they were referring to my outward appearance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Autosomal Viking View Post
    Men fall in love more quickly than women. The physical attraction deriving from looks is not different in women, but usually not as high of a priority as it is to men. Women can see that a man is handsome and appreciate that, but they are less prone to falling head-over-heels at merely his looks. Some surely can, but generally they are more interested in the whole package: his personality, how he treats her, other abilities, etc. It's just a difference in the order of priorities. At least that's my understanding.
    I disagree that men fall in love more quickly than women! You are correct that we do go for the whole package of traits, but there are shallow women out there such as men. Physical attraction is important to me, but also a like mind and someone who shows affection towards me is attractive.
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    re:

    Sorry for another male reply, I know that's not what you had in mind for the census of your thread.

    I think women are sexually attracted to our outward appearances just not as much as we since males tend to be more visible. I think many women don't seem to act like they are looking at us primarily because society might label them as being unlady like and dirty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Forrest King View Post
    Can a woman see a man and think "wow, his arms, legs, and chest are really sexy, I'd like to put my hands on them"? Can women get aroused by physical characteristics as much as men?
    OOHHHH YEAAA...

    But it will take more than just looks to get us as girlfriends etc...

    What any guy also should remember is that there is more important values than looks.... such as personality, the pure essence of man, the sense of protection, great humor, and the ability to see us as a person and not a piece of meat you eat and through away when satisfied, listen and be there when we need you, etc…

    And what really, really turns us on.. Is a man with a plan…

    If you have your own opinion, and do something about it..

    Crap.. sadly there is so few…

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    Women and Sexual Attraction

    I have learned that women like a man with a great sense of humor.

    Most all my former girlfriends told me that although they were attracted by my looks first, it was my crazy sense of humor and quick wit that they liked.

    Oh yeah, they also liked that I treated them like ladies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TXRog View Post
    I have learned that women like a man with a great sense of humor.

    Most all my former girlfriends told me that although they were attracted by my looks first, it was my crazy sense of humor and quick wit that they liked.

    Oh yeah, they also liked that I treated them like ladies.
    Yes, but don't you have the unfair advantage of having a moustache, too?

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    It depends. It is mostly a lie what they tell you in sex ed class about women not being attracted visually. I can definitely be somewhat visually attracted if he either has special physical traits or is very handsome/tall, but that switch can get turned off easily depending on other factors, unlike a man. I'm visibly attracted to the tall, dark, and handsome type or the chiseled/blonde golden boy type. The problem with these men though is that they are so spoiled rotten by girls that they are irritating to be around and are usually like children because of the way they are waited on hand and foot or doted upon.

    So yes, women can be visually attracted to men, but usually it is more of a mix between voice sounds, smells/pheremones, and sense of security when she's with him. Every woman is different though, some are more visually attracted and others more of a mix of different things. I have kind of a high sex drive and I am somewhat attracted visually, but definitely not nearly as much as a man is to a woman. Also not everyone likes the same area of the body. Some women like the chest, others like the lower body, some like body hair and some don't.

    The thing that drives me crazy is a fresh, barely there stubble. It must put off some kind of pheremone or scent and the face and shoulders/hands are the number one area of the body I like. This may sound weird, but I can't stop tonguing the guys face when it's like that, but luckily he loves it. It also turns me on when the guy clearly has class, is sharply dressed and cut, and knows how to push all of my buttons but still remains mysterious (this hasn't ever happened exactly, but its the ultimatem of what turns me on )

    But generally, yes, it is more difficult for a woman to fall in love than a man but when we do it is more long term. The problem I always have is, if the guy is a good match for me, he just takes things way too far too fast and can get the wrong idea from my sensual manner.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Linden View Post
    Yes, but don't you have the unfair advantage of having a moustache, too?
    Yes I do brother Linden and have had it since I was 15 years old..

    In the world of love, one must take and make use of every advantage one has at their disposal.
    Last edited by TXRog; Tuesday, July 12th, 2011 at 01:00 AM. Reason: spelling

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