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    Quote Originally Posted by TommyAtkins View Post
    You dont have to go into a bar...go into a chemists shop when its full of women and shout at the top of your voice....

    "Can i have a packet of contreceptives extra extra large please...the ones with a propeller on the end"

    Believe me,youll get all the attention you need...even if its from a female police officer,its still a start.
    I don't know about all that Tommy.

    I seem to remember attracting the attention of a couple of female police officers in years past where it didnt go very well at all......

    Still as usual your humor is always predictably funny.

    "Can i have a packet of contreceptives extra extra large please...the ones with a propeller on the end"
    They have propellers on the end of them now?

    What will they think of next?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Caledonian View Post
    I don't know about all that Tommy.

    I seem to remember attracting the attention of a couple of female police officers in years past where it didnt go very well at all......

    Still as usual your humor is always predictably funny.
    Quote Originally Posted by Caledonian View Post
    They have propellers on the end of them now?

    What will they think of next?
    Alaric, this is why you can't meet women. The man said something funny. The response is to laugh, not to try to adapt it to make yourself look good.
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    Tommy's line there might work in the US. It would show that he was confidently funny, and not afraid to take a risk. It was a good example.

    Also, having a group to associate with can help. It would help to show that one is not a "weirdo".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Caledonian View Post
    My problem is that I'm a solitary recluse and not by choice either where I have been as such for a long time now [years] that I find it hard being anything other else.
    You need a change of scenery which will force you to adapt. And the sooner you get out of "recluse" mode, the better for you. Instead of finding reasons to say NO to things you're going to need to find reasons to say YES to things.

    Whenever you start thinking no no no, well, you get the idea. Change starts with you. Either make the change or stay in the same situation. I have a feeling you're not happy with where you're at so really.... just get on with it and stop wasting valuable time.

    Get your gameplan ready, smooth out the worst rough edges and then take the plunge.

    I've only lived in this city where I live now for a year and a half yet I still hardly don't know anybody at all where everytime I try to meet strangers in public I'm shunned automatically.
    It's a combination of things, probably partly the effect you have on certain people and probably part "in your mind". Either way you're going to need to fix both so analyse the major problems or get somebody else to tell you what they see / don't see when they look at you and take it from there.

    As for religion I've known quite a few devils of men in my time over the years who would fake religion to get with some hot to trot religious zealous women showing up on on Sunday mornings to get with them so that they can go home with them also later on in the Sunday evenings if you get my drift.

    Still the blatant unbeliever in me couldn't even fake religion even if I tried.

    Such men are as equally atheist as myself but put a religious attractive woman in front of them they'll get down on their knees yelling out hail Mary's to present themselves as noble saints for a potential pairing up going from atheism to a true believer in a second to all astonishment.
    Hehe... the Church Reverend is only interested in your money anyway so no need to feel guilty about the Church. As far as the wimminz there are concerned, it's your sacred duty to save them from being ruined or molested (mentally and / or physically) by the Church so what's the problem? You don't have to pretend to be the #1 Believer. Just put on your best puppy dog face, tell them you have problems (particularly the wimminz) and let them save you

    You never know hehehehe

    Me I stand too near my principles to even lower myself to those extremes.
    Principles are nice but they don't get you laid.

    I just couldn't bring myself down like that of those rabid dogs.
    You don't have to be as bad as them. Perhaps only 1/2 as bad.

    Well it's always those pretty girls who say they are going to make religious men out of a great deal of guys.

    [I guess with that we just call it sexual religious conversion.]

    Those sort of shannigans would never work on a sly clever man like myself.
    Some of the craziest girls at my school were ministers' daughters. They'd be all prim and proper until they hit a certain age or something happened and from that point... they were on another level. That's what a lifetime of oppression does to certain people.

    You never know, there may be somebody waiting to be rescued

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    I have always found that with the right opening you can meet women anywhere. It takes some confidence although I am not overly confident myself.

    You also have to take advantage of opportunities.

    I was once at College and a pretty girl came up to me and asked for directions to the cafeteria. I gave the directions which were somewhat confusing as she was on the opposite side of campus from it, she looked confused and I asked her if she would like me to walk her there. She accepted, mission accomplished - met a girl.

    At same college I was standing behind a girl in a queue she was wearing a hat, I said "great hat" she turned around and smiled straight into my eyes.

    If you see a woman reading a book - ask her about it.

    In other places, "Have you got the time" works well especially when I am wearing a watch

    The head on approach of "You are very beautiful" is a winner in most cases as it is quite courageous. Please don't say "your hot" only kids say this and it doesn't hold the same impact as "Beautiful". You also need to follow this up with other questions which she will answer as you have just called her beautiful.

    In a bar, I will look at a woman and when she notices me I will look away only to look back again and so forth, then break out a cheeky smile when she laughs at my behaviour I will then make a hand gesture if it is alright for me to come over, I know the answer will be yes as she is thinks I am funny.

    A friend of mine used to send over glasses of tap water to women, this worked for him as he had the cute helpless puppy look. I am more masculine and it makes me look cheap.
    I grew up on a belief of honour, courage and the old world values. The world isn't about that anymore, preferring to die a slow death of fast food and cheap thrills.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meister View Post
    I have always found that with the right opening you can meet women anywhere. It takes some confidence although I am not overly confident myself.

    You also have to take advantage of opportunities.
    Indeed!

    If you see a woman you really like, just go and speak with her, there's nothing to lose! It can be on public transport or at a public event, just anywhere!

    Now here's an interesting and real story: A cousin of mine who was single, one day he just thought 'Alright, today I have to meet someone!', he took his car and went for a ride in the city. At the bus stop in front of the university he stopped and just picked a girl he liked, asking her if she wants to go for a ride with him. She accepted. She went with him for a ride, and when he brought her back to the university bus stop it was too late for her to catch the bus to go home (she lived in another town), so he offered to drive her home. They kept in touch, they got married and now they are married and they have children together.

    I know that's not something that happens everyday, but you just have to dare!

    Who knows... if you're supposed to meet someone, it can be anywhere... but you have to dare, be courageous, and not miss the chance! If you get a no for an answer, at least you tried... there's nothing to lose if you try!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Víđálfr View Post
    Indeed!

    If you see a woman you really like, just go and speak with her, there's nothing to lose! It can be on public transport or at a public event, just anywhere!

    Now here's an interesting and real story: A cousin of mine who was single, one day he just thought 'Alright, today I have to meet someone!', he took his car and went for a ride in the city. At the bus stop in front of the university he stopped and just picked a girl he liked, asking her if she wants to go for a ride with him. She accepted. She went with him for a ride, and when he brought her back to the university bus stop it was too late for her to catch the bus to go home (she lived in another town), so he offered to drive her home. They kept in touch, they got married and now they are married and they have children together.

    I know that's not something that happens everyday, but you just have to dare!

    Who knows... if you're supposed to meet someone, it can be anywhere... but you have to dare, be courageous, and not miss the chance! If you get a no for an answer, at least you tried... there's nothing to lose if you try!
    I agree with everything you said about meeting someone except the part where the woman got into a car with a total stranger. That could end very badly, and sometimes does.

    I would suggest two strangers meet in a public place, and get to know each other first.
    Not all in life is at it appears to be.

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