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    Physical Perfection

    Does the opposite sex have to meet a standard of physical perfection for you to like or be attracted to them?

    I for one am a average looking man and I am in no way a model for the highest physical perfection when it concerns the male gender.

    [I also have a problem looking much younger than my actual age which gives me a bunch of grief where I get carded everywhere I go.]

    I'm a slim skinny slender average looking guy and am nowhere near being a muscular body builder whatsoever.

    There are certain things like obesity or being overweight that I agree that there is no excuse to have but not everybody can be supermodels either in physique is what I'm trying to say in this thread.

    If women think they are the only ones pressured to look perfect physically they are dead incorrect because men are just as stressed to aspire towards physical perfection as well where they are equally criticized or shunned upon failed expectations by the opposite sex.

    I for one am tired of this society where everybody is discarded if they don't look flawless physically in the relation to others.

    Not everybody can be physically flawless looking. It can't be done.

    I've tried to no avail to aspire towards physical perfection but no matter how hard I have tried I can't do it where I have become accustomed to trying to be comfortable in my own skin as much as possible.

    [I've logged a great deal of hours at gyms with hardly any positive results.]

    Instead I've tried to embrace my imperfections and my plain average looking appearance in accepting it for what it is.

    Instead of looking like this guy below:



    I have more of a skinny slender appearance like this gentlemen below from one of my favorite television shows:



    Not all of us can look like knock outs.

    A great deal of people have average looking physical appearances.


    I would be glad to hear other people's opinion on this here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Caledonian View Post
    Does the opposite sex have to meet a standard of physical perfection for you to like or be attracted to them?
    It is necessary for a woman to look like she could healthily bear a number of children for me to be attracted to her. Beyond that, I don't mind imperfections, as long as she isn't utterly hideous.
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    Can you fight? Can you fuck? Can you work?

    These are the only purposes the flesh serves. Anything beyond those basic functions is superfluous, and the only sort of person who would desire anything more is a fool, and a pathetic one at that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ardito View Post
    It is necessary for a woman to look like she could healthily bear a number of children for me to be attracted to her. Beyond that, I don't mind imperfections, as long as she isn't utterly hideous.
    I'm the same way. Really when I look for women I just want a average looking woman of equally average looking physical beauty.

    I don't really mind some imperfections if they are not too terrible in that I got some myself.

    As I said earlier the only thing I criticize is obesity because I feel there is no excuse in being overweight but beyond that my standards when it concerns the physical appearances of a woman are really not at all that very high.
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    The media has been pushing the standard more and more on us guys in our lifetime when it used to only be women they did it to. The simple answer is no, you don't have to meet a standard of physical perfection for the opposite sex to be attracted to you. Just think about it: are you only ever attracted to the women who could be super models? Probably not. And we guys are much more visual than the ladies are when it comes to attraction. But if you are worried about it, it would do you well to start exercising/working out. Every bit does help. I started going to the gym 3.5 times a week a year ago, but for a different reason. The effort you put in does give certain benefits in everyday life. If you only ever attracted to women who are not attracted to you, you need to either work on making yourself more attractive through exercising and building your personality, or consider lowering your standards to a realistic level, that which you ask from the ladies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Autosomal Viking View Post
    The media has been pushing the standard more and more on us guys in our lifetime when it used to only be women they did it to. The simple answer is no, you don't have to meet a standard of physical perfection for the opposite sex to be attracted to you. Just think about it: are you only ever attracted to the women who could be super models? Probably not. And we guys are much more visual than the ladies are when it comes to attraction. But if you are worried about it, it would do you well to start exercising/working out. Every bit does help. I started going to the gym 3.5 times a week a year ago, but for a different reason. The effort you put in does give certain benefits in everyday life. If you only ever attracted to women who are not attracted to you, you need to either work on making yourself more attractive through exercising and building your personality, or consider lowering your standards to a realistic level, that which you ask from the ladies.
    My problem is that my job is already physically exhausting enough as it is fifty hours a week and I'm either too tired or too busy to go to the gym consistently on a regular basis when I'm off work.

    [When I'm not working or busy running around I'm usually studying for school and reading in the confines of my apartment.]

    I do run five miles every Saturday and I do try to go to the gym once a week but in no way can I be considered muscular at all even amongst the very physical work that I do at my job even despite the little bit of exercise on the weekends that I get on my own time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Caledonian View Post
    My problem is that my job is already physically exhausting enough as it is fifty hours a week and I'm either too tired or too busy to go to the gym consistently on a regular basis when I'm off work.

    [When I'm not working or busy running around I'm usually studying for school and reading in the confines of my apartment.]

    I do run five miles every Saturday and I do try to go to the gym once a week but in no way can I be considered muscular at all even amongst the very physical work that I do at my job even despite the little bit of exercise on the weekends that I get on my own time.
    If you don't have time to work out at the gym for an hour, then you don't have time for a girlfriend. Relationships take effort and must be invested into for anything worthwhile to come out of them. You sound like you are in an inconvenient time in your life for such a relationship and might be better off concentrating on your work and studies anyway. You, like me, might just be in an awkward stage in your life to be considering a relationship. And remember, women want relationships above anything else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Autosomal Viking View Post
    If you don't have time to work out at the gym for an hour, then you don't have time for a girlfriend. Relationships take effort and must be invested into for anything worthwhile to come out of them. You sound like you are in an inconvenient time in your life for such a relationship and might be better off concentrating on your work and studies anyway. You, like me, might just be in an awkward stage in your life to be considering a relationship. And remember, women want relationships above anything else.
    I have plenty of time for relationships with women on the weekends when I'm not working or studying for school.

    The problem is that I never meet their high expectations of financial income, physical appearances, and social status.

    I've been single too long [years] and I loathe it as it is a bane of my existence.
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    Actually men don't have to be particularly good looking to be attractive. They should keep their hair cut properly (I like military cuts, but many women like long hair), have good hygiene (brushing, flossing etc.), and keep their weight under control, and not dress like a total slob. Good looks certainly help, but I find a man attractive mostly for different reasons. You can do more with appreciation, respect, a good conversation, chemistry, and income than you can with looks. A model-like guy who is disloyal/cheats and looks at himself in the mirror all the time is prone to being selfish and metrosexual and is of no use to me (I find most male models hurrendously gay looking but the guy you posted is not that type). I actually view a guy close to my age who is really good looking as a kind of hazard in a serious relationship. Although I like to at least have someone who is fairly proportional and tall (I consider somewhere in the 5'11 range acceptable); not odd looking for breeding purposes. I can't find myself attracted to men that are overweight either, and I actually prefer a guy with a lean build as long as its not skinny, although muscular/athletic is nice too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Caledonian View Post
    I have plenty of time for relationships with women on the weekends when I'm not working or studying for school.

    The problem is that I never meet their high expectations of financial income, physical appearances, and social status.

    I've been single too long [years] and I loathe it as it is a bane of my existence.
    Then use this time to make sure that you will better meet their expectations in the future. Do your factory job because you need money now, but study hard and finish your university. Use this time to go to the gym and get as fit as you can, even if you think you are inherently non-muscular. You don't need to be huge. Toned works just as well often. Keep doing this with your sights on the long-term, most realistically a few years. Eventually get the best job you can (duh) once you graduate.

    Even if you think all this is somehow all pointless, it will help. It will help you find someone and help make you and her happy.

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