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    Are There Any Benefits to Marriage for Men?

    I honestly don't see any. You are signing a contract where a woman can leech off you indefinitely and leave you at any second.

    I think most men see marriage as a way to "secure" a woman (deep down an act of desperation after years of loneliness), but the fact is she will still have all the options she had before, and women initiate 80% divorces so most of them do not see a problem/shame in ending a marriage.

    An act of naivety/love? A hopeless move from a lonely "beta"? A custom that won't die?

    Why do it?

    https://www.bitchute.com/video/CI6p9XTA4xw6/

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    *passing on genes: no, not necessary and why marry a woman who may not be able to get pregnant?
    *proof of commitment: since when does this even matter? Men have little to no choice of women anyway. If you father a child, you are supposed to support the mother anyway, regardless of whether you got married.
    *shame or fear: could work to an extent but surely not against most men.

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    If you want a traditional woman to be your life partner you would have to marry her. I bet you would also have to marry if you want a woman to stay at home and take care of your children at least until they are a few years old. Marriage will also make it harder to break up.

    I you only see marriage as a legal contract, I could understand that you don't really value it. I think it's important that you commit to each other and promise each other to be faithful till death do you apart in front of family and friends before you start your own family. If you suspect that a woman doesn't take it seriously and would divorce you without a really good reason to do so, of course you shouldn't marry her.

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    At least in Norway, there doesn't seem to be many inherent risks to getting married. In case of a divorce, both parties generally take with them whatever they owned at the time when they married. Like property, house, car, etc. But if you've shared the downpayment on a mortgage, f.ex., the party who keeps the house is obliged to pay the sum of money that the other party has contributed with on the mortgage over the years. Only the things you cannot prove that was yours before the time of marriage, is subject to the 50/50 sharing rule.

    It can cause some unfair situations, though, when for example one spouse has been in charge of paying down the mortgage, and the other spouse has been paying for everyday-expenses, like groceries, household items, clothes for the kids, vacations, and so on. In those cases, the spouse who didn't pay anything on the mortgage might be left with nothing at all, even though he or she may have contributed just as much to the family economy as the other party.

    As for the custody of shared children after a divorce, most instances end with shared custody. All of the kids I knew with divorced parents while growing up, usually spent one week with their mother, and the next week with their father. In the cases where the parents lived in separate cities, the kids would normally choose one parent for the weekdays (usually the mother), and the other parent for the weekends. And both parents are required by law to contribute the same amount of child support for their children, regardless of which parent has the children under their roof most often.

    I don't see a lot of risks and pitfalls with marriage under those conditions, as long as both parties try to share 50/50 on mortgage and household expenses. In the case of stay-at-home mothers, personal contracts can be made to secure the wife from ending up on the street in case of a divorce.

    As for why one should get married at all... Because it's romantic, I guess, and for all the minor tax benefits.
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    Apart from the arguments already mentioned: In Germany (and Switzerland, so I'm surprised you don't know that) only the mother gets custody (and the father automatically gets none) in case the partners aren't married and haven't provided a mutually signed "declaration of custody" to the corresponding administrative offices or if the father doesn't receive shared custody by a court decision.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegenschlag View Post
    Why do it?
    Yeah, listen to your lesbian Jewish masters and help destroy the institution of marriage to make life safe for LGBT degenerates and the JewWorldOrder



    MGTOWs / Incels are just the "male" version of feminism and continue the gender war on the family.

    One would think that such disgruntled degenerates would be shunned straight away among nationalists who blah about "tradition" and what not, but their heroes are gays and misogynists. Idiots
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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    Yeah, listen to your lesbian Jewish masters and help destroy the institution of marriage to make life safe for LGBT degenerates and the JewWorldOrder
    No thats what you're doing by suggesting men put themselves totally at the mercy of a jewish run and controlled Jewdical system. "Help destroy marriage?" Jewish feminism has already done that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    MGTOWs / Incels are just the "male" version of feminism and continue the gender war on the family.
    You couldn't be more wrong about incels. Incels are guys who can't get into relationships. They are basically trying to get married, but can't. To say they are against marriage is like saying a hungry stray dog on the street is against food.

    MGTOWs come in different sorts, but what unites them is criticism of female behavior, in particular of modern women. The largest chunk of them are incels in denial (don't need to cover those) who can't get women but won't admit it and instead tell themselves they are too good for them. Incels jokingly call them "men sent their own way".

    Most of the rest of MGTOWs would change their minds about relationships and marriage if they saw women behaving better (read in a more traditional way) and they saw marriage/divorce laws as being more favorable to men. Part of these guys are indeed divorced and have lost their children or a significant part of their assets.

    Feminists hate both groups far more than they hate most men and indeed these groups are attacked and persecuted in the media and other institutions as "hate groups."

    The Wikipedia article on incels speaks for itself.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel

    You think liberals would use that tone for LGBT or any other ally?

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    Things have to move on !

    The next move for a relationship is marrige ...

    The festivity while marrying is called 'Hochzeit' in German tongue ,
    which literally translates as 'High Time' or "Highest Point in life time" , which then says that there will be be a downhill curve afterwards .

    A marrige can still have more " High Peaks" when there are more children underway while the marriage is excistant .

    Also the move to a better housing situation can stimulate a marriage .

    Things have to move on in a marriage , to keep the marriage fresh .
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    ''Are There Any Benefits to Marriage for Men?''

    Probably not ...
    1.) if you don't want your bloodline continues and 2.) if familylife means nothing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gegenschlag View Post
    Are There Any Benefits to Marriage for Men?
    My husband pays way less taxes because he is married to me and has children with me. He has colleagues at his workplace who earn more than he does, but get less out of it just because they are unmarried and childless.

    He must have seen some benefits for him, otherwise he wouldn't have asked me whether I wanted to marry him. I'm happy that he asked. I trusted him anyway, we had already been a couple for almost 7 years and had two children by the time he asked. But still it feels better now that we are married. It gives a stronger feeling of commitment and belonging to each other. Which is important to me since I love him so very much. Plus, it is simply traditional and better for our children.

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