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    Relationships and Marriages with No Sex

    I am seriously wondering, are there people who have a relationship or are even married who do not have sex or only for getting children, and by that i mean not getting children as a excuse to have sex but no more then 1-3 children.

    What are your opinions about it, could you do it, is there a on/of switch for the libido ?

    why am i asking this ? because i am considering it.

    Again, i am serious.

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    Well, IMHO I think there are people who never have sex in their relationships or they used to have sex but no longer do.

    To me sex is very important as it is a way of bonding with one another, sure when you are with someone for a extended period of time the sex drops off to almost nothing. Then the child or children move out and it picks back up with a renewed sense.

    But to sum it all up, I will say sex is important and I think that a relationship would struggle without it.
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    If you only have sex in order for the woman to become pregnant, chances are that you'll be left with zero children in the end. Not every act of unprotected sex ends up in a fertilised egg. That myth belongs into the realm of Hollywood comedies about some woman getting "knocked up" on a "one-night-stand".

    Other than this, I doubt it'll work. When the female partner asks for "cuddling", chances are pretty high it won't end as that. And if you then turn around and say, "Nah, remember, we only have sex to have children," you'll hear hours and hours of "You don't love me as much anymore, do you?" and stuff like that if you're not back to snoring before she can.

    In short, you're going to be hardpressed to find a woman with such a low libido that she'd be happy to partake in such an arrangement. That'd be relying too much on the stereotype that women only want closeness and men only want sex, and that if the male part doesn't want the sex, it doesn't happen. You'd struggle to keep up a celibate relationship.

    My opinion is similar to that of G Baughman. Sex is also an important ingredient of forming the bond of a healthy relationship. Whilst sex is ultimately designed to ensure procreation and continuation of the species, not all sex need to be of a reproductive nature.
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    Ancient Autumn the only thing I can tell you is sex is a big part of "most"
    relationships or it is when you are younger and by younger I mean 20's and
    30's and I also assume it has a lot to do with the type of partner you pick.
    Some people just have higher sex drives than other's.I know that I like having
    it several times a week,but I am a true Redhead.
    I honestly believe if you are going to have a healthy relationship,having a
    sex life that is fulfilling to both partners is a must but that is just my opinion.
    The only advice I can give to you is try to find a women who does not care about having sex if that is what you are searching for.I am sure they are out there.I believe there is someone out there for everybody.

    When you get into a serious relationship,children just seem to "Pop" up
    as they are a natrual by-product of most relationships between a man
    and a women.Some couples like to plan out everything but to me that
    takes all the fun out of it.I mean come on its not rocket science.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OneWolf View Post
    Ancient Autumn the only thing I can tell you is sex is a big part of "most" relationships or it is when you are younger and by younger I mean 20's and 30's and I also assume it has a lot to do with the type of partner you pick.
    Not just when they are younger. It's curious that people magically assume that once their parents reach a certain age, they stop having sex.

    I'd safely say that it is a big part of "all" relationships when you are "younger" (using your definition of that term), and still a big part of "most" relationships beyond that age. It typically only stops when they divide their sleeping allocation to two separate rooms at a much latter stage.
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    problem is that i do not want to have sex

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ancient Autumn View Post
    problem is that i do not want to have sex
    You don't want to have sex with your partner or you don't want to have sex "at all, ever, with anyone"?
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    Sex is generally an Important part..........

    Quote Originally Posted by OneWolf View Post
    Ancient Autumn the only thing I can tell you is sex is a big part of "most"
    relationships or it is when you are younger and by younger I mean 20's and
    30's and I also assume it has a lot to do with the type of partner you pick.
    Some people just have higher sex drives than other's.I know that I like having
    it several times a week,but I am a true Redhead.
    I honestly believe if you are going to have a healthy relationship,having a
    sex life that is fulfilling to both partners is a must but that is just my opinion.
    The only advice I can give to you is try to find a women who does not care about having sex if that is what you are searching for.I am sure they are out there.I believe there is someone out there for everybody.
    In most relationships things go smoother if both partners have pretty much the same level of libibo. At 70 years old I have a bit of experience....
    Some Folks' Libidos wane a bit as they get older........and some do not.LOL
    Cuddling is great...but it only goes so far, toward Satisfaction.

    On a Recent "Doctors" show on on CBS network they were saying that healthy individuals could maintain good health if they had 200 "actual sexual episodes a year" unless they had some physical problems, or medications,
    t.i., high blood pressure, a stroke or something similar. Sex is good for you, Healthy, too. If there is a problem with the libido, there is medical help available, sometimes.

    And, there are lots of methods of contraception available to folks today, that work 95%+ of the time, if you really do not want children or want until you are better ble to afford them.
    Good Luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Horned God View Post
    You don't want to have sex with your partner or you don't want to have sex "at all, ever, with anyone"?
    Maybe only to get children.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grimsteinr View Post
    libibo.
    Made me giggle there.

    Maybe your hormones are out of whack. I'm not saying it's bad to abstain from sex, but perhaps there's an underlying condition that you should be addressing if you don't feel any drive. For simple health reasons (ie pituitary adenoma, thyroid condition etc) maybe you should get a full blood panel work-up. When I broke up with my ex I lost my drive to find women for a while. I think one's psychological state can have a great effect not only on libido and drive, but hormones as well.

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