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    Is Virginity Important in Your Relationship?

    Is virginity of importance in your relationship? If you are virgin, would you prefer a virgin partner to a non-virgin one for example? Would knowing your partner is not a virgin make you feel jealous that you were not his/her first?

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    To me it's unimportant although I can understand why some people feel they need to "save themselves" for marriage.

    On the other hand, it would be preferable if the other person wasn't a complete slut.

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    My wife and I did not wait until marriage, though she was the first woman I had sex with. I was not her first, and it is a fact that has never bothered me, nor has it caused me any jealousy, nor has any aspect of my sexual history (to my knowledge) caused her to feel jealous. - can't blame her for who she was, or what she did before we were together, and on the plus side, she does have some experience, and so has been able to advise me, when needed.
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    No, it was never a matter in my current relationship. We both had some relationships before we met and engaged with each other so the matter of "virginity" was non-existent.

    "Judge of your natural character by what you do in your dreams" - Ralph Waldo Emerson

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    Nothing like that should matter.

    Virginty shouldn't matter in a relationship. If you truelly love your partner, then nothing like that should matter.

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    I think that virginity is the proper state when one plans to enter a relationship -- hopefully with the intent that it will last forever. Is this too idealistic? Maybe for some, but I'm personally not willing to gamble with the potential consequences of premarital sex.

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    I don't expect that my ideal partner should be a virgin per se, but I would prefer someone who is not a Don Juan/womanizer and promiscuous with women. "Experience" is overrated, I think. I also don't agree with the modern trend of "virgin shaming". There is no reason why people should have to have sex at a certain age. I think Germanic societies need less promiscuity in general...

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    Just out of curiosity. It seems to be a relatively new thing to refer to guys as to "virgins"?! The term virgin to me has an exclusively female connotation.

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    In general, women are expected to be virtuous whilst men are expected to be experienced, so perhaps this isn't a topic where the same measure might always apply. From an evolutionary perspective, men would seek to spread their seed as far as possible whilst women would seek to sleep with an assortment of the best men and that's perhaps still what society deems 'acceptable'.

    Naturally such absolute judgements aren't at all conducive because we're a tad beyond the Stone Age, and as such I think both sexes should be as picky as possible when it comes to their sexual conquests. Virginity per se needn't be a given, but being not too promiscuous gives a feeling of much more exclusivity and thus essentially might offer some couples a heightened sense of trust.

    At the end of the day, it has more to do with attitude than actual sexual history, though. Even if you slept with half of town whilst you were single, the important part is that you're faithful whilst and when in your relationship and make your partner feel every moment of every hour of every day that they're the only person you desire. I personally would trade every ill-advised previous relationship and every thoughtless one-night stand for another night with the woman I love.
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    Formerly I had no opinion about it.

    Today I compare it to used cars:
    always need for repairs.

    The more "experience" , the more negative experience in between.

    Who wants to make negative adventures ?

    Negative experiences are psychological / mental burdens for new relationships.

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