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    My wife and I were both still carrying some heavy baggage with us from previous relationships when we got together. Every now and then these ugly memories combined with our own heated differences would rear its ugly head, causing us to become seriously argumentative. As time progressed these bad memories faded into our subconscious, and we only argue occasionally for a short time these days. Usually, after we verbally exchange whatever it is that's irking us at the time, my wife will frown and tell me to ---- off, and I'll quickly respond with ---- on with a goofy grin, which evokes a headshake, rolling eyes, and eventually a laugh followed by "You silly -------". And then everything is cool again.
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    I think that too many fights in a relationship are not a good sign. However, it's also important to impose one's own point of view and make their feelings known. Bottling up feelings inside can lead to internalizing issues and isn't good for relationships. I found this article which emphasizes that the way couples discuss and solve their issues is more important than the argument itself:

    All couples argue, but it's the way they argue that determines if their relationship will go the distance.

    "Instead of attacking the other person’s character, happy couples color inside the lines and express their own feelings," psychotherapist Vikki Stark, director of the Sedona Counselling Center of Montreal, told The Huffington Post. "It’s fine to say, 'I’m furious with you right now!' It’s not fine to say, 'You’re a sorry excuse for a human being.'"
    https://www.huffpost.com/entry/8-thi...U4lA5YyaDnuHAv

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nachtengel View Post
    But some say on the other hand if there are no fights, there is something wrong.
    I wonder what makes people say that. My husband and I fight very rarely, if at all. As a matter of fact, I cannot really remember the last time we had a big argument. Perhaps this is the result of us being honest with each other and discussing anything that bothers us.

    So do you fight with your partner and if so, how do you solve your fights?
    If my husband and I have a disagreement, we try to compromise. For example, if he cannot be home for dinner one day, I can be understanding, and he will make it up some other day. We make sure not to keep anything bottled up, no matter how unpleasant it is.

    What do you think of "make-up sex" as a means of solving it?
    I think it's cute.

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    I'm bit temperament person ... then I'm really flaming ... man is simply better wait a moment (go to jogging or something) ... giving me time to calm down. One skills/requirement for my future second half

    Some psychologists says that fights gives changes to ''fresh the air'' in relationships. I think they are ''fine'' ... as long as

    a.) there are't too often (needs for?) those.
    b.) couple can solve those before they go to bed/sleep.
    c.) there are no physical forces used.

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    I don't mind a good fight as long as it's solution-oriented, and doesn't dissolve into simple name-calling and blame-gaming. Even in the heat of the moment, I think having a good and fiery argument can be something beautiful and romantic, being a reflection of how much two people care about each other. Complete apathy or conflict-avoidance is no expression of love. I'd much prefer a fight over that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Finnish Swede View Post
    a.) there are't too often (needs for?) those.
    b.) couple can solve those before they go to bed/sleep.
    c.) there are no physical forces used.
    Naw...That's no fun... Not even jiujitsu?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Žoreišar View Post
    Naw...That's no fun... Not even jiujitsu?
    Just tell how tall & how much you weight ... and I will answer

    Seriously ... I would not have anything against for training with my man ... LOL ... but that would be best to happen as both are normal/calm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Finnish Swede View Post
    Just tell how tall & how much you weight ... and I will answer
    My right-hand grip strength has been measured to 110 kg. That's all you need to know.

    Quote Originally Posted by Finnish Swede View Post
    Seriously ... I would not have anything against for training with my man ... LOL ... but that would be best to happen as both are normal/calm.
    I'm sure a bit of manhandling would calm you down quickly enough.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Žoreišar View Post
    My right-hand grip strength has been measured to 110 kg. That's all you need to know.

    I'm sure a bit of manhandling would calm you down quickly enough.
    My katana is pretty sharp ...

    Then Sweden won Finland Icehockey's World Championship's final (some years ago) ... I did't talk to my father for one day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Finnish Swede View Post
    Then Sweden won Finland Icehockey's World Championship's final (some years ago) ... I did't talk to my father for one day.
    Silence is golden...
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