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    Has anyone thought that public affection may not necessarily be meant to be done as showoff? Do you really think people hug, hold hands, kiss or fondle to be seen by others, or because they enjoy it?

    Has it ever happened to you to feel so much desire that you couldn't wait to get home, so you picked a corner to do it? It's precisely why you find couples "screw each other on street corners" or "having sex in the bathroom of a restaurant" and not in the middle of the road, because they look for the nearest option of privacy.

    Public may be public, but it doesn't give anyone the right to pry on other's love life. Yeah I understand the offense if someone at your table starts having sex, but what's it to you if two lovebirds touch each other at the corner of the street? Just mind your own business and look another direction.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    Has it ever happened to you to feel so much desire that you couldn't wait to get home, so you picked a corner to do it?
    NO. I'm a man, I can control my basic instincts. But maybe they should create some sex booths for weaklings and place them on the street at every 100 meters. 50 Euro's per usage.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    Has anyone thought that public affection may not necessarily be meant to be done as showoff? Do you really think people hug, hold hands, kiss or fondle to be seen by others, or because they enjoy it?
    Not necessarily for a show-off, but it's like "we are in the mood, so let's do it on the street cause it's ok to do it there." :/
    Holding hands, or kissing or even fondling is all right to me, but when I pass by a public bench where a couple sits and I notice the guy's hands under the girl's shirt...well...I feel like in ancient Rome in the hothouse.


    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    Has it ever happened to you to feel so much desire that you couldn't wait to get home, so you picked a corner to do it?
    No, cause I'm a male person and I see it is a duty that sometimes to master my passion. No matter how "fiery" a situation may become I keep that later for the bedroom.


    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    It's precisely why you find couples "screw each other on street corners" or "having sex in the bathroom of a restaurant" and not in the middle of the road, because they look for the nearest option of privacy.
    It may be, but I think people should realize that things have their own place and time. Any affection between a couple should be considered as something private, which is not meant for anybody, especially not meant to the eye of the world.


    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    Public may be public, but it doesn't give anyone the right to pry on other's love life. Yeah I understand the offense if someone at your table starts having sex, but what's it to you if two lovebirds touch each other at the corner of the street? Just mind your own business and look another direction.
    I mind my own business but I have my own right to criticize it and have an opinion about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ossi View Post
    NO. I'm a man, I can control my basic instincts. But maybe they should create some sex booths for weaklings and place them on the street at every 100 meters. 50 Euro's per usage.

    I would support such a motion for the urge-driven. Perhaps it wouldn't do away with public sex, and they wouldn't be used much --- but it would perhaps mind them to choose a slightly less obvious place (like a back alley or sth) and that's all that it needs. When you're unlikely to be caught, it's not really public anyhow.

    I also agree upon the control of basic instincts. After I've eaten a good bean salad alongside a hearty meal of meat I feel the urge to fart just as heartily. Likewise, after a hearty sip of beer, nothing is more relieving than letting out a hearty burp ... does it mean I should give in to that basic urge, or perhaps swallow it down (scuse the pun - for burps it's to be taken literal or metaphorical ) for the sake of public morality and manners?

    Just mind your own business and look another direction.
    We're already forced to "look the other other way" on all types of immoral, ill-mannered and degenerate conduct. I'm not willing to extent my turning a blind eye if it means that our towns become one large, continuous brothel.
    -In kalte Schatten versunken... /Germaniens Volk erstarrt / Gefroren von Lügen / In denen die Welt verharrt-
    -Die alte Seele trauernd und verlassen / Verblassend in einer erklärbaren Welt / Schwebend in einem Dunst der Wehmut / Ein Schrei der nur unmerklich gellt-
    -Auch ich verspüre Demut / Vor dem alten Geiste der Ahnen / Wird es mir vergönnt sein / Gen Walhalla aufzufahren?-

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    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    Has anyone thought that public affection may not necessarily be meant to be done as showoff? Do you really think people hug, hold hands, kiss or fondle to be seen by others, or because they enjoy it?
    I have no problem with hugging, holding hands and kissing (discreetly, no French kissing). Anything beyond that is obscene to be done in public.

    Has it ever happened to you to feel so much desire that you couldn't wait to get home, so you picked a corner to do it?
    No. If I want to get naughty I stay home. Simple as that.

    It's precisely why you find couples "screw each other on street corners" or "having sex in the bathroom of a restaurant" and not in the middle of the road, because they look for the nearest option of privacy.

    Public may be public, but it doesn't give anyone the right to pry on other's love life. Yeah I understand the offense if someone at your table starts having sex, but what's it to you if two lovebirds touch each other at the corner of the street? Just mind your own business and look another direction.
    That corner of the street may be the corner I have to pass by each time I walk home or shopping. What about when my son grows up and I take him out for a walk? Is that the kind of things I want him to see? And bathrooms are public service, if I go to the bathroom to wash my hands or pee am I supposed to do it with loud sex noise in the background? In this case too, what if a mother takes her young daughter to the bathroom? If someone wants to have sex, stay home!

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    I didn't say it's something ideal. It's not what I would do, but I don't blame people if they do it. If I see anything suspicious and I'm with my child I simply don't walk there and take another route. It's very simple to avoid. The public space doesn't belong to me. I'm not promoting exhibitionism, I'm just against this holier than thou invasive and ultra prudish attitude some members here take. Women can't wear make up, have tattoos or wear a short skirt without being categorized as "slutty", couples can't enjoy a bit of affection without being called "immoral" and "obscene". Please.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    It's not what I would do, but I don't blame people if they do it.
    The same way of dealing for ex. with homosexuals lead to the fact that more or less they are "accepted" nowadays.

    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    If I see anything suspicious and I'm with my child I simply don't walk there and take another route. It's very simple to avoid. The public space doesn't belong to me.
    I wonder when I'll have my own children if there will be "another route" to take and avoid them to see people behaving like whores.

    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    I'm not promoting exhibitionism, I'm just against this holier than thou invasive and ultra prudish attitude some members here take.
    What's prudish in controlling feelings or instincts when they are in need to be controlled?

    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    Women can't wear make up, have tattoos or wear a short skirt without being categorized as "slutty"
    We're skipping subject here.

    Quote Originally Posted by Todesengel View Post
    couples can't enjoy a bit of affection without being called "immoral" and obscene". Please.
    Please read the upper posts again and notice what is considered obscene.
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    My answer is pretty much the same as everybody else's. - Get a room.

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    To me it's simple: If the couple is racially compatible, then the more affectionate the better. If they're a biracial couple, they gross me out.

    There's some truth to the "showing off" argument, however. I remember a few weeks back, I saw a white female with an Asian man. As soon as the girl saw me looking, she almost tried to swallow her boyfriend's face in an obvious attempt to make a statement.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hrodnand View Post
    The same way of dealing for ex. with homosexuals lead to the fact that more or less they are "accepted" nowadays.
    We're skipping subject here.

    I wonder when I'll have my own children if there will be "another route" to take and avoid them to see people behaving like whores.
    What's the alternative? If there is no other route to take, then distracting your child's attention and passing by quickly is better than interrupting the couple, lecturing them and asking them to "get a room".

    What's prudish in controlling feelings or instincts when they are in need to be controlled?
    Nothing, except that we aren't talking about having sex on a restaurant table or in the middle of a shopping mall. But nobody is going to die if a couple sits on a bench and the man caresses his girlfriend.

    Please read the upper posts again and notice what is considered obscene.
    I have. French kissing for example.

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