Are You Beautiful?

[Theunissen]

Beauty is a burden for a man. A standard. A male 8 will not like to date a female 4, nor should he have to, but everybody wants a woman who is an 8.

For women, it is the complete opposite. Beauty means unlimited power. And you see beautiful women who freely date uglier men for their status, when they could be with men of beauty equal to their own or greater. The question is, where does that leave the good looking men?

Too me man, including myself, are not beautiful. In fact some ugliness in men shows masculine character. Being in good shape is allowed, even desirable, though.

Well, yes, Girls/Women look for status in men, not only the gold-diggers. They want the man to be wealthier, more intelligent, stronger and assertive.
That is also natural, since they need a save environment to rear children. Unfortunately it seems those instincts have been poisoned nowadays.