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    Quote Originally Posted by Haereticus View Post
    Happily homosexuality is not contagious
    Not contagious, but definitely influential. There are a surprising number of youth who have chosen to experiment with homosexuality, mostly girls, on account that it's cool, it gains them attention, or just from their own ignorance. Monkey see, monkey do. I've also noticed a number of perfectly straight women and men seek members of their own gender. Nowadays, homosexuality isn't just a condition limited to a few. It's a choice, available to everyone. That's not what I'd want to see of my children.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gorm the Old View Post
    That would prove indisputably that you never loved that son or daughter.
    how is that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Deary View Post
    Not contagious, but definitely influential...
    I know, I was being slightly facetious. I take your point about the potential bad influence, but I couldn't throw my son out of the house. I'd certainly have words if he was being 'overtly gay'. There is a limit.

    Anyway, God forbid!
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    If they were teenagers at the time, then most likely I would "do nothing", and much to their disbelief tell them that it was likely a phase that they were going through. I would tell them to go to their room and ponder about the whole matter and come back some days later, upon observing their own behaviour, to ask themselves whether they are indeed homosexual, or just have bisexual leanings.

    If they find out that they were bisexual, then I would advice them that it was still in the best interest if they founded a normal heterosexual family, pointing out to them that there were possible ways in which they could arrange with their spouse how to take her of their leanings towards also liking people of the same gender. I'd become quite cynical and say - "I've always placed my hope in you, my boy/girl, that you're going to give us a bunch of grandchildren. Don't let us down, will ya?" () I'd then let them go away with my advice again and ponder upon whether they can imagine living in a heterosexual union despite their bisexual leanings.

    If they are indeed full-fledged gay, then I would probably tell them the story of a good friend of my mother's. He is homosexual, and in fact always adopts the female part of a relationship --- however, you could not tell that he is gay, and he has himself stated that he believes that his sexual orientation is a matter of his own four walls and not pertinent to the public any more than it would be were he heterosexual. He dresses, acts and talks like a man - except that he prefers men over women. In fact, when my mother started seeing my stepfather, my stepfather was heavily jealous, because he had no idea my mother's friend was gay! He'd only been used to them "Oh, I like boys, so I have to act über-camp at all times" gays.

    Pointing them at this story, I would make it clear to them that they could believe whatever much they wanted to believe that they were a woman stuck in a man's body or vice-versa - as long as they put their feet under my table, they were treated as whatever their biological gender was, and that my gay son would equally be expected to chuck wood, act gentlemanly to women and fulfil all other male tasks however much he despised them: A man is a man and a woman is a woman, and as far as I am concerned, they should have no "back door" (scuse the pun ) to get out of it.

    I suppose I would also make snide remarks. For example at a barbeque, I'd be along the lines of "Son - you want I sausage in a bun? I hear you're quite partial to that, eh?" I have too much of a sarcy streak not to poke at them a little. Much like I'd taunt them in good humour for a whole lot of other things. That's just how I am I am afraid. I can take humour out of the darkest of situations.

    Either way, I would make it known to them that they were still my child and that I still held them in esteem as a person. However, I would definitely make clear to them that I disapproved of his sexuality, and that there was going to be no pushing of it beyond the reasonable. They'd still be able to turn to me for all types of human advice --- but they wouldn't be pushing their ways to their siblings, or nieces/nephews, as he should IMO hold it as private a matter as anyone else does about their sexuality.

    When telling them I suppose that for the beginning I'd instinctively make them feel miserable about it for the first half hour of the conversation to show my heavy disapproval of their ways, and then sit down with them and talk to them in a more reasoned manner. When I was suspended from boarding school for drinking, my father gave me a near enough two-hour lecture about the error of my ways before he said - "Alright, I think you've understood it now. Coming for a pint?" I'm too much like my father in that respect, so I think that my reaction would be somewhat along those lines: First comes the lecture, then the nice guy.

    The only circumstance under which I would probably threaten to throw them out is if they participated in the gay pride marches, dressing up all faggy and acting all camp around the rest of the family beyond their characteristic selves, because whatever they do, I'm not going to let them spoil the harmonious family atmosphere. My house, my rules - if you don't like and are old enough to take care of yourself, then leave, boy!

    At least one action I wouldn't have to take, presuming that gay marriage and gay adoption are still illegal at the time, would be to disinherit them. If they have no legal spouse and no children then it'd all be back to their siblings anyway, no fuss to be made about that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zauberspruch View Post
    How would I feel knowing my son was being penetrated by another guy? I'd be repulsed but I'd try not to dwell on it. .
    So what you're saying is if he were the penetrator instead of the penetratee, then it would be ok.

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    I would be extremely disappointed and would attempt to coax son/daughter to suppress their urges and lead a heterosexual life for the sake of producing progeny and continuing the line. (I would be equally satisfied if son/daughter choose to follow their homosexual urges but also produce offspring either through artificial insemination or surrogacy).

    It would also help if son isn't a total fairy or daughter isn't a total butch. What I like to call, "normal gays".

    Quote Originally Posted by Grimm View Post
    So what you're saying is if he were the penetrator instead of the penetratee, then it would be ok.
    LOL!

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    I think a few of us on here would be like this when confronted by your Son and his latest boyfriend!

    http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=f-II284PnJo
    Our own sickness is what has caused todays problems, and our own physical, but above all; spiritual health, will be what delivers us to a new Golden Age.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Haereticus View Post
    At the end of the day, I'd have to try to be philosophical about it. I don't believe homosexuals have any choice being afflicted with this condition. I see it as an anomaly of nature like having six toes on one foot... only much worse.
    I too am of the belief that homosexuality is an odd twist of biology and that by-and-large, gay people have no more choice in their sexual priorities than do straight folk.

    This being said, I still find homosexuality to be a strange endeavour. If a child of mine were to be gay, I would not stop loving them but there would likely be a part of me that would never quite understand, for lack of a better word.

    In just thinking about it off of the top of my head, I have a hunch that it would be easier for me to swallow were it to be a daughter that was gay.

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    Soiciety seems more accepting of lesbians then gay men. Even when I attented high school in conservative Mesa, Az. in the late 70s we had lesbians that made no effort to hide their sexuality. They were butch lesbians, they were not popular & kept to themselves but they were there. There were no lesbian beatings, they were just ignored. And of course there was that one butch female P.E. instructor that didn't have a boyfriend & you knew would never marry (this was back before the gay marriage movement) but it was only joked about privately. Gay men on the other hand is another issue entirely.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hrodnand View Post
    First, that would not happen, for I think I would be good enough as a parent to give a such a healthy education to my children which would exclude the appearance of such abnormalities.
    Second, I think that our family and genetic line is good enough and such things wouldn´t occur.
    That's my view too. My children would be brought up traditionally, with a clear distinction of the things which are acceptable and which aren't. Homosexuality would be on the inacceptable list. They would be brought up to consider it a decadent and shameful attitude, like a crime.

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