What Are You Looking For In a Partner?

[Northern Paladin]

What Traits Are Most Important to You When looking for a Mate?

[Stríbog]

Intelligence first of all, then subrace, pigmentation, personality and attractiveness in no particular order.

[Jack]

Intelligence, personality and attractiveness. Subrace and pigmentation go under 'attractiveness'.

[RusViking]

First attractiveness (physical beauty - including athletic body and good health), personality (compatiblity, sexual compatiblity, trustworthiness and loyalty), then intelligence. Not necessarily light skin but not dark skin - good skin; light eyes and light hair, but not absolutely. Tall and lean important - over 5' 7".


Mate defined for me as a woman with which to have children.

[Phlegethon]

Hmm. Intelligence. And that is where it normally ends.

[Zyklop]

Beauty and the ability to know when to better shut up.
Girls with social jobs (i.e. nurses, kindergarten-teachers etc.) are usually good choices.
Only-childs and private-school girls are a waste of time.
Never trust a woman who claims to have nationalistic views, women don´t have any territorial instinct.

[bocian]

Common sense and a good sense of humour are at the top of my list. Luckily, my Wife posseses both.

Great looks are important, but worth absolutely nothing if there is no 'substance'.

Btw, she is an only child. Believe me when I tell you, this is a difficult hurdle to overcome. The first year was both the best (physically) and worst (mentally) , but after you get through it, and learn how to properly compromise, it gets much better.

After 6 years together, 5 living together, and 4 married, things have never been better.

Willingness to compromise is the most important quality, by far.

[Johannes de León]

Willingness to compromise is the most important quality, by far.

Followed by intelligence, and then attractiveness.

[Mac Seafraidh]

Intelligence and humor. A broad that will not put ya down. Someone to have fun with so there is no lonliness.Not snobby!!! As a preference ethnicity(100 percent European blood, of course modernly speaking, not native-american either. That lacks Caucasioidness) and voluptuocity.

[Northern Paladin]

Mine would be:

Intelligence which includes having a good sense of humor

Looks: I prefer girls that are fair and of medium height 5'3"-5'10". To me the perfect height would be 5'8"ish. Body type is also important. Either lean yet shapely or voluptous yet not fat.

Skandonaivian and Irish phenotypes are to my liking.

Personality: Not Bitchy or Ill tempered. I can't stand bitches no matter how smart or beautiful. I prefer girls who are amiable and easy-going. Not "high strung".

Never trust a woman who claims to have nationalistic views, women don´t have any territorial instinct.

How is this so?