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    hmm... didn't see a post on it - and I need some advice on relationships anyone want to give me random advice since I keep messing up?

    'German boy, do not forget you are a German,' and, 'Little girl, remember you are to become a German mother.'

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    Quote Originally Posted by blut-ehre
    hmm... didn't see a post on it - and I need some advice on relationships anyone want to give me random advice since I keep messing up?
    About what? You have something problem in your relationship?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Szacsi
    About what? You have something problem in your relationship?
    Advice on keeping a relationship stable

    'German boy, do not forget you are a German,' and, 'Little girl, remember you are to become a German mother.'

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    My advice for you - don't stress over it! You're 14 - you'll have plenty of time to get it right. Be true to yourself while being repectful towards those you associate with. Someday you'll look back and...

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    Quote Originally Posted by blut-ehre
    hmm... didn't see a post on it - and I need some advice on relationships anyone want to give me random advice since I keep messing up?
    Just be there there, hanging around but always with a certain demeanour that you are more worth than a first glance can decypher, be earnest and dont jump on some bandwagon of your emotional upheaval....listen to the person, free your mind, and try to understand the person who takes an interest in you...let the decision, if you're to her best interest and a good match, over to her , but that's no invitation to placidity, work on bringing the best what you can offer any human to the surface...

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    Ahh, just go with it. Whatever happens will happen. Its a good fatalistic attitude to adapt, if I do say so myself
    I envision a world where people dawning long white robes and elaborate headdresses run rampant down the streets, waving their arms in the air while screaming "we've gone mad, we've gone mad", like defrocked monks breaking the silence of ages past.

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    At fourteen you are too young to be concerned about mistakes, other than to learn and remember about them. They will keep coming back into your head, even as an older man...the purpose being so you don't do it again. Being fourteen to twenty-five to thirty is all about making mistakes... and learning. And your peers are going through the same thing. Keep a positive attitude and forge onward. You will be fine.

    If you are talking about girls and women...treat them as you would like to be treated, be nice but don't allow yourself to be treated in a disrespectful way.

    I have two fourteen year olds.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blut-ehre
    hmm... didn't see a post on it - and I need some advice on relationships anyone want to give me random advice since I keep messing up?


    You're only 14...you are too young to worry about serious relationships anyway. Enjoy your youth while you have it. The main thing with relationships however, is understanding each other... Not trying to change one another's traits (that either one of you may find annoying). Accept each other...take a look also from the outside (forgetting lust, selfish desires) and really assess how you communicate with each other, the general aura/feeling you feel/create when you are together.... If the bad out does the good...maybe it is time to accept that you aren't meant for each other & part ways. Life is too short to be wasting time on trying to make a unsuccessful relationship work.

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    A few absurd notes:

    One - smell is important If the target smells appealing, cool. If not, it's an instinct thing - avoid.
    Two - fourteen is FAR TOO YOUNG to start a 'committed' relationship in my opinion. Perhaps to 'connect' (in the most blunt sense possible) with another person of the opposite sex at a party, maybe. I became 'active' at 17 so I wouldn't really know about that part.
    Three - make sure they're about as smart as you are, at least so you can have decent conversations. Four - At fourteen, two things count: movies and music. Make sure you have similar tastes (not too similar, that gets irritating) so you can talk about things. Music, like movies, should overlap, but not be identical. At the very minimum, be able to tolerate the music of your 'partner', because if you can't - well, music and the music one listens to is an expression of the soul. If the music is really so different that you can't connect with it in any way, then you are way too different to go out with this person. At fifteen, books may or may not count. That depends. At thirteen I read heavily and I still do read a bit.
    Four: Most important of all, ask yourself if you are capable of telling every single thought that pops into your head to this person. Now I'm rather stupid and unfortunate as to agree to a dare pretty similar to this, so woe is me.
    Five: But if you can't handle that, the other person is simply incompatible - unless you're up for a 'quickie'. In which case, dress up for the party, look good, drink a little enough to calm you down and act ok, and - take what's appealing. Otherwise, all the above applies.

    Those are my ideas. If you don't like them, I have others
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    Post Re: Relationship Advice

    Just dont sweat it. Being 14 is a tough age. You are far to young to be having "serious" relationships anyway. Just have fun and laugh a lot.[laughter is the way to true love] And ALWAYS treat her with kindness and respect. It you dont respect her dont be with her. Dont be loud , pushy, overbearing or a dick. And remember; Sex is like chinese food, The meal aint over until you BOTH get your cookies! Good luck!
    Some days you just want to holler your head off!!!

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