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    Quote Originally Posted by Boche View Post
    I also prefer being in a Relationship. In a Relationship you have someone for everything. Of course i'm talking about working and good Relationships, but until you found one you will experience alot of bad things concerning Relationships aswell. People should never give up finding a Relationship.

    Also i can't understand all those Single People who enjoy it because they can have Sex with alot of different People whenever they want. I think that's really cheap and low to be like that, and i disrespect People who are like that aswell.
    I don't understand what's so good about it in the End. Except that you can tell People later how "great" your Life was, wasting Time getting laid with a different Person each Week and you can be proud on it that you're known as "Slut".




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    Very true! Sounds like a lot of drama to me and just an ego boost to prove to people how "cool" you are.
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    In my state, Pennsylvania, a man takes a financial beating if the couple gets divorced. There have been studies that show many women are much better off financially after a divorce than when they were married. Smart men know this and avoid losing one half of all they own if they are divorced, which is so easy in America with all the "no fault" divorce laws. If there are children involved, it is even worse: she often ends up in your house, with you paying the mortgage, and paying child support sometimes through college ages.

    Getting married is the single biggest legal entanglement you will ever get involved with, and I and most men do not ever think of this aspect. Wish I knew then what I know now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Birka View Post
    In my state, Pennsylvania, a man takes a financial beating if the couple gets divorced. There have been studies that show many women are much better off financially after a divorce than when they were married. Smart men know this and avoid losing one half of all they own if they are divorced, which is so easy in America with all the "no fault" divorce laws. If there are children involved, it is even worse: she often ends up in your house, with you paying the mortgage, and paying child support sometimes through college ages.

    Getting married is the single biggest legal entanglement you will ever get involved with, and I and most men do not ever think of this aspect. Wish I knew then what I know now.
    I think this just ties in with the lower levels of maturity, and also the troubling ways in which many women are being raised today. Many of them don't respect men because of negative propaganda in society, and this plays itself out in these disastrous, failed marriages.

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    well if a (female) child is raised without a father.. or a 'deadbeat' father i would think that respect for men in general would be thrown out the window. unless she/he learns a lesson from it all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MockTurtle View Post
    There's no question that much of society has been rearranged in order to facilitate and even encourage the feminization of men; ultimately, we have to approach the situation from both sides, both at the individual and the larger societal level. Individual males need to regain their assertiveness in their careers and life in general, while also addressing the larger issues facing society. I guess by some slim chance I could be wrong, but I'm reasonably confident that most women will appreciate the efforts of men to develop a more healthy sense of masculinity. I think things will naturally handle themselves if the initiative is taken.

    Besides, we also have to recognize the fact that Nordish women are the most feisty by nature in the whole world. I get disgusted with men who are too insecure and/or weak to handle the strength of character of Nordish females, and instead prefer the overly 'submissive' females from East Asia, Mexico, South America, etc.

    At some point, the 'feistiness' of Nordish women should be appreciated. I wouldn't have it any other way.
    True, we have to do our best to work around barriers modern society sets in place, and not just give in to them. I strongly disagree on your 2nd point though, not to repeat arguments from another contentious thread, but my life is hectic enough that I just want peace&quiet when I come home.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SwordOfTheVistula View Post
    I strongly disagree on your 2nd point though, not to repeat arguments from another contentious thread, but my life is hectic enough that I just want peace&quiet when I come home.
    You can still have peace & quiet; I'm just saying that Nordish females have always been relatively feisty, even back when our culture was much healtier in terms of gender roles and gender behavioral norms. They've always been that way. The thing is, in earlier eras Nordish men were more morally confident in themselves and were still capable of commanding respect, and Nordish women still had respect for men in general. Nowadays, by contrast, the 'feistiness' is combined with an overall disrespect for males and it exacerbates the whole situation...

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    Quote Originally Posted by CrystalRose View Post
    well if a (female) child is raised without a father.. or a 'deadbeat' father i would think that respect for men in general would be thrown out the window. unless she/he learns a lesson from it all.
    Certainly. But it comes from other places as well, namely modern society and your peers and in the education system of today. There is a growing trend among the women of today to be nothing more than workers, disenfranchised from their femininity. Women today are taught to see men as the oppressor in some examples and masculinity to mean freedom, because of this they assert themselves as more masculine figures while rejecting their feminine nature.

    I remember just recently hearing a mother explain that she worked so that she felt like she was doing something worthwhile which made her life valid. I would have thought raising her children and esuring they grow up well would be more important than working a menial job.

    On the other side we see men that will never grow up and the ones that do serve as nothing more than as a source of income for their spouses. Parents are too reluctant to hand down their principles and beliefs to their children because it's seen as being "invasive", children don't want to be raised but would rather "find themselves". What most fail to see is that children will always be invaded and influenced by what they're told in school and what they see around them and from my perspective it's not a lot to look forward to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Beornulf View Post
    Exactly, as I've said many times men need to be more decisive and manly. There's no verile spirit in the men of today, which is just as problematic as masculine women.
    I have to agree with this. I love being with somebody but i cant seem to find anything but weak guys who like to play video games. Most females like a man who can toss her around a bit .

    As for men perfering to be single there is that old saying why buy the cow if you can get the milk free. Sex is no longer seen as a serious issue. What once was almost a sacred bond between lifetime partners is thrown around in the gutter by total strangers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Beornulf View Post
    Certainly. But it comes from other places as well, namely modern society and your peers and in the education system of today. There is a growing trend among the women of today to be nothing more than workers, disenfranchised from their femininity. Women today are taught to see men as the oppressor in some examples and masculinity to mean freedom, because of this they assert themselves as more masculine figures while rejecting their feminine nature.

    I remember just recently hearing a mother explain that she worked so that she felt like she was doing something worthwhile which made her life valid. I would have thought raising her children and esuring they grow up well would be more important than working a menial job.

    On the other side we see men that will never grow up and the ones that do serve as nothing more than as a source of income for their spouses. Parents are too reluctant to hand down their principles and beliefs to their children because it's seen as being "invasive", children don't want to be raised but would rather "find themselves". What most fail to see is that children will always be invaded and influenced by what they're told in school and what they see around them and from my perspective it's not a lot to look forward to.
    i agree with you. i feel that if i'm not working towards something my life serves no purpose. then again i have no children. most women i know who have kids still do all of the cooking, cleaning, working, bills.. and the 'rest' of the time goes to the children. WHILE still being feminine and keeping fit. not to mentionthose are all full time jobs. so men shouldn't be complaining. either that or step up to the plate.
    in the 'real' world men depend on the womans income as well.

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    I can tell you why I like being single. I don't have answer to anyone in my personal life and do not have to put up with someone else's crap. Also, I do not have to worry about some mercenary, avaricious woman taking half my property and assets - which took me a lifetime to accrue - when she decides she is bored and wants her freedom; if indeed it was not her intention all along to enter into marriage just long enough to be entitled to the legally sanctioned theft of my belongings.

    I enjoy all the benefits of marriage without having to pay the piper.


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