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Thread: A question for all those men who want children

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    A question for all those men who want children

    This question is addressed especially to those men who want children very much...

    What would you do if you find a woman you want to be with, and she wants to be with you too, but she either doesn't want children or can't have them? Or there might be another situation, in between, when due to various factors (for example health risks or even the risk to lose her life), it may be more advisable for her not to have children... Of course, even if it's not from the very beginning, this situation can also occur later... It can happen to anyone...

    So... what would you do in such a case? Would you dump her and go find another woman to have children with? Or would you stay with her?

    Which is more important to you? To have those children no matter what... or to be with a woman with whom you get along well, no matter if you have children together or not?

    Also, I created a poll with the last question...
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    If I don't get any Germanic kids, I will feel my life is unfulfilled. Norwegians are in negative population growth, all growth is from immigration.
    It's not going any better in other Germanic countries unfortunately, but things will turn around.

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    OK, so the first wife was a whore, I mean when she said "I do" she meant everybody, including the neighbor she got knocked up by.

    Yes, I always wanted children, after a period of what call pushing American freedom to the extreme limits I fell in love with beautiful ex wife #2. She could not have children even after spending hundreds of thousands dollars. In hindsight deep down she knew I really wanted a child, but she quit trying and it was the beginning of us drifting apart.

    So, fast forward to present and I feel I'm too old even though my gf is not and she has already produced three and two are adults. The idea of adoption does not bother me as I have already a adopted son and it worked out fine.

    My biggest regret is not having the traditional family.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vlfr View Post
    So... what would you do in such a case? Would you dump her and go find another woman to have children with? Or would you stay with her?

    Dump. What would be the purpose of continuing?


    Quote Originally Posted by Vlfr View Post
    Which is more important to you? To have those children no matter what... or to be with a woman with whom you get along well, no matter if you have children together or not?

    Duty above all. Feelings are pointless and irrelevant.
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    As I've lamented on this site before, I was once involved with a woman who proved to be highly unstable, and walked out of my life as quickly as she walked into it. Only she did so carrying our daughter that I was never able to participate as a responsible father in raising properly.

    I then met and married a stable and responsible lady who has stood by me when other women would have walked out on me. But we have been unable to procreate due to legitimate concerns about the probability our progeny would be mentally and/or physically abnormal.

    I do think it is wise to concentrate on finding and developing a loving, stable relationship before ever thinking about having children.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vlfr
    Which is more important to you? To have those children no matter what... or to be with a woman with whom you get along well, no matter if you have children together or not?
    I find this a very rotten offer. There's only one correct answer and it's none of the above. If you care about procreation, you should never find yourself in a situation where you have to ask yourself this question - otherwise you're doing it wrong.

    Why no matter what make children with a woman whom you know to be bad news - it's the shorttrack to suicide for men. And why be in a relationship with a woman who does not want children if you want them? Stop wasting each other's time then.

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    I'd might consider polygamy. It's a win-win for all involved. Me and my first wife get to hold on to our relationship, my second wife gets to have a female companion around at all times, and the children get three parents taking care of them. I'd might be forced to relocate to a different country, but I'm willing to make sacrifices.
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    My family history is something not to be proud of , unfortunately .

    There had been misinterpretion and too little constructive conversation , lies .

    My guess is , I have to wait for my parents to be dead , and then it is too late .


    Money is missing , and I figured out , that I am not a renter , borrower , loaner , and I prefer own property ,
    to keep some independence , liberty , freedom from supression by being nice to everybody .


    Overall I am neutral to that children matter , not a good entertainer , more of a listener and reader , and need constructive practising and movement , am more outside bound by the mind , probably too simple and easily satisfied .

    I am not interested in verbal fights , since females have a better legal position , than men , nowerdays .

    I am a lazy household keeper , and because of my simple mentallity might cause lots of house work ....
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