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Reason Power
Friday, December 24th, 2004, 01:49 PM
This are posts from a thread in another forum, see my reply to it and tell me what you thinkof it .



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How can a guy tell if a woman is interested in him, what kind of signals should a guy expect from a woman? How can I tell if she is interested, or just being friendly?
There is a woman I am interested in and I think it might be mutual, I am planing to take her out to a show and then take her home and cook her dinner (I am a good cook) for a first date kind of thing. She already said yes to the show and dinner but I don't know if she gets my intention.
It has been a long time since my last girlfriend (18 years in fact...shy...very very quiet and shy) and the rules have changed quite a bit since then. I'm now 32, she's 28.
I am feeling really out of the loop, trying to catch up on lost time, love increasingly seems to be a language I have no tounge for.
Any advice?
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http://www.stormfront.org/forum/images/icons/icon1.gif Re: First date, some advice?
One thing to keep in mind: Don't spend TOO much. You're both older, so I would suggest don't spend over $50 (for you AND her) on a date; if you're a student, over $20 is probably pushing it. You would come across as trying to "buy" her. Also, only a golddigger/mercenary would be offended by a free first date (note I said "first" date).

Making her dinner is a cute idea. http://www.stormfront.org/forum/images/smilies/wink.gif

As for "signs"... well, some good signs are if she's a bit nervous, but smiley nervous. Also, look for her laughing at funny things you say. You should be saying funny things to make her laugh. One good way to do that is to make creative misinterpretations, such as if she has a new hairstyle, say "You look different! Did you get a new shirt?" (Cracks 'em up everytime!) So don't be afraid to tease her... just don't go over the top and insult her. Also, when you have fun, smile, but not TOO much. You don't have to be the Great Stoneface, but be cool and collected. If you're sweating bullets inside, fake it. http://www.stormfront.org/forum/images/smilies/wink.gif

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MY POST:

............... whatever the woman had to do for the man in all this.... nothing, just sitting and laughing and expecting to be more pleased. The man here is left to his own as to knowing wether he is loved or not while he is forced to express what he feels for the women if the relationship is to go any further......... SO TIRANIC AND INJUST!!!!
All this is the result of the female´s lesser mental activity, a lesser capaticity to fantazise and imaginate situations in with much profit is done by the pairing, and thus less need for the male than the other way around. Women must be raised to become more human and think more, only then may the male have his psycological needs fulfilled.

nicholas
Friday, December 31st, 2004, 06:15 AM
There is no defense for the male! kill them all!

OOPS! I was channeling the vast majority of whiney women on American college campuses. Sadly most college age women are good for a one night stand, the white males realize this. Even sadder...the minorities don't see it so they end up with all the whiney white girls.

Methinks i'll have to come to Germany or Ireland to find a good and worthy women.

Nick

Sappho
Friday, December 31st, 2004, 06:42 AM
"Reason Power," you describe your politics as anti-woman. That makes us polar opposites, as mine are first and foremost pro-woman. If you are against women, you must dislike being around us. It seems that you find White women (i.e., the most feminine women) especially annoying. On the other hand, I prefer the company of women, especially White women. Perhaps we can cut a deal? We women can have our space, and you can have yours. That way, everyone is happy. :D

nicholas
Friday, December 31st, 2004, 04:48 PM
"Reason Power," you describe your politics as anti-woman. That makes us polar opposites, as mine are first and foremost pro-woman. If you are against women, you must dislike being around us. It seems that you find White women (i.e., the most feminine women) especially annoying.
What would you describe as pro-woman? I myself consider myself pro-woman but I want women to be equal in many ways that actually in a sense deny them power. For instance. I want women to be responsible for their actions, especially in a court of law. Often I see articles depicting the violent, psychotic woman as just a poor, helpless creature. The media will even interveiw the perp who often says something along the lines of "It's not my fault, I'm a womban, i'm a victim"

If a man and a woman, both in seperate areas of the city commit the exact same crime (murder) under the exact same circumstances. who should get the harsher penalty?

It's obvious I'm setting a "trap" and I can only expect you to do what I know you will do.

QuietWind
Saturday, January 1st, 2005, 04:19 AM
You know, my husband was anti-woman like you when he and I met. I agree with most of what he says about women. It is true. Women are shallow, materialistic, trollop-ish, etc. There ARE good, wonderful women out there. You just have to sift through all the "diamonds" and look for the coal. ;) (Yeah, sounds opposite, but they all think they are diamonds, yes? You want the humble one who thinks she is coal.) Anyway, dinner is a good idea, not spending money is a good idea, etc. You are old enough to maybe have learned some things. For the most part, take it easy. When you find the right woman, she will love you for YOU, and not for what car you drive, or what your annual income is. You won't have to chase her down, or compete for her attention with other males. She will love you and want only you. In her world, you will be the center. So, stop trying too hard, and take a 'don't care' attitude. If some girl dumps you, who cares? I always say "when you step in sh*t, just kick it off and keep walking." The same is true with love and in all areas of your life.

Good luck! :)

SouthernBoy
Saturday, January 1st, 2005, 04:34 AM
No, heterosexual man is "anti-woman" even if he is chauvanistic.

nicholas
Saturday, January 1st, 2005, 04:55 PM
No, heterosexual man is "anti-woman" even if he is chauvanistic.
Would you then according to your logic claim that no heterosexual woman is anti-man.

That must be it....most of the women on campus must be lesbians,or in the process of being converted to lesbianism.

SouthernBoy
Saturday, January 1st, 2005, 08:06 PM
If you are anti-opposite sex then you are definitely a homosexual.

nicholas
Saturday, January 1st, 2005, 09:30 PM
If you are anti-opposite sex then you are definitely a homosexual.
what about hemaphrodites? are they anti or bi?

Nuovo Vesuvio
Saturday, January 1st, 2005, 10:44 PM
I know sum1 whos an anti-opposite lesbian homersexual

Nuovo Vesuvio
Saturday, January 1st, 2005, 10:44 PM
Yeh I think Jenny's post was wise words

Imperator X
Monday, March 7th, 2005, 02:50 AM
@Sappho,

You're a strange one. A NS lesbian seperatist? Next thing you know they'll have gay "Spartan" reactionaries here too. :)